Kalmar "fetishism" ta fito ne daga Fotigal ƙwaƙwalwa wanda ke nufin wucin gadi, sihiri, sihiri. Ya bayyana a cikin yaren Faransanci a karni na XNUMX a ƙarƙashin jagorancin De Brosses¹. Da sha’awar waɗannan abubuwan da mutanen Afirka ke girmamawa, waɗanda ake kira fetishes, ya ƙirƙira kalmar don cancantar bautar:

« Ina rokon a ba ni damar amfani da wannan magana ta al'ada, kuma duk da cewa a cikin ma'anar da ta dace tana da alaƙa musamman da imani na Negroes na Afirka, na yi gargaɗi a gaba cewa ni ma na yi niyyar yin amfani da shi. magana game da kowace al'umma ko wacce abin da ake bautawa a ciki dabbobi ne ko rayayyun halittu waɗanda aka bautar da su; koda lokacin da ake magana wani lokacin wasu mutane waɗanda abubuwan irin wannan ba su da alaƙa da Allan da ya dace da su, fiye da abubuwan da aka ba su da ikon allahntaka, maganganu, layu, da talisman masu kiyayewa. ".

A farkon karni na XNUMX, kalmar "fetishist" ba ta sake kiran mabiyin addini na farko ba, amma na “Karkatarwa” na zamani, a cikin ma'anar anomaly, ɓarna ta jima'i. Sabon yarda da kalmar yana da ban mamaki, yana ba da shaida a can ga wata buƙatu na ƙima. An yi bayanin amfani da “wani abu” da aka karkatar da shi zuwa burin jima'i na dogon lokaci amma har yanzu ba a bayyana sunansa kai tsaye ba. 

An rarrabe shi azaman cuta na fifikon jima'i a cikin Ƙididdigar Ƙididdiga ta Duniya na Cututtuka da Matsalolin Kiwon Lafiyar da ke da alaƙa, an sanya “fetishism” tsakanin “sadomasochism” da nune -nunen. An sifanta shi da furcin predilection ga wani bangare na jikin daya, don halayen jiki ko tunani ko ga abubuwa marasa rai, galibi sutura. Anan ne jerin abubuwan da aka fi sani:

- Nono, hanci, hannu, tabarma;

- launin gashi, girman jiki, rashin ƙarfi, wari;

- Hannun hannu, takalmi, rawanin dare, pancakes na makoki;

- Kafa, baki, uniform, da sauransu.

- Nau'in kayan: fata, latex, fur.

Waɗannan abubuwan za su farka, ta hanyar haɗin gwiwa, wakilai masu ƙarfi na mutumci kuma za su ƙarfafa ikon jin daɗin jin daɗin jima'i da aka samu.

Kowa ya kasance "fiye ko fetasa tayi" cikin soyayya bisa ga Binet. Ta haka ne ya bambanta “ƙaramin tayi” daga “babban tayi”, wanda zai zama cuta.

Halin ilimin halin ɗabi'a zai fara ne lokacin da "ƙaunar kowane daki -daki" ya mamaye har zuwa share duk sauran. Max Dessoir su ne: « soyayya ta yau da kullun tana nuna mana wani salon waka wanda ya kunshi sauti iri iri. Yana haifar da mafi yawan nishaɗi. Shi, don a ce shi, mushiriki ne. Mai yin tayi ya san tsadar kayan aiki guda ɗaya kawai; an ƙaddara shi da ƙaddarar da aka ƙaddara, tauhidi ne. »

Ana amfani da haruffa uku don canzawa zuwa pathological tayi :

- Daidaitaccen layin tayi: muna kiyaye wannan fifikon rayuwa.

- Rashin rinjayar motsin rai

- Halin keɓantaccen abu a cikin gamsuwa da jima'i don cutar da cikar sa. 

Tun daga farkon (wanda aka misalta musamman ta labarin shahararren ɗan tatsuniyar '' nightcap '' wanda ake zargin ya yi mamakin mahaifinsa da mahaifiyarsa a wuraren bacci tun yana ɗan shekara 5 a gado), likitocin tabin hankali sun zargi wasu. "Abubuwan ƙuruciya Tun da wuri don taka muhimmiyar rawa wajen gyara tayi.

Abubuwan da suka faru na ƙuruciya, musamman tsakanin shekaru 4 zuwa 6, da alama suna taka rawa a bayyanar waɗannan ɓarna na jima'i. 

Za a iya samun wahalar haifuwa da wahala ga wanda aka azabtar da kuma abokin tarayya wanda galibi yana jin ba a ƙaunace shi gaba ɗaya. Maimaitawa da taƙaitawa na ibada da masu neman haihuwa ke buƙata na iya haifar da gajiya abokin tarayya.

A saboda waɗannan dalilai, wasu suna neman maganin tabin hankali, psychotherapy ko ilimin hankali. Wannan zai buƙaci fara magana da babban likita ko ƙwararre. 

«Babu wani abin bakin ciki a ƙarƙashin rana kamar ɗan tayi mai son taya kuma dole ne ya wadatu da mace duka. » Karl Kraus, Le Flambeau (The Torch), Yuni 5, 1908, p. 25, babu 256.