Ko da kuwa fa'idodin cin abinci na tushen shuka, cin ganyayyaki har yanzu tsiraru ne. A cikin wannan haɗin, neman abokiyar rayuwa wanda ke raba abincin maraƙi yana cike da matsaloli.
Mawallafin jama'a Alex Burke mai tsananin cin ganyayyaki ne. Ba ya cinye kowane kayan dabba. 'Yan matan nasa biyu na ƙarshe su ma sun yi riko da Veanism. A halin yanzu yana da 'yanci. Alex yana neman ƙaunarsa ta dabi'a tare da cin ganyayyaki.
“Na hadu da abinci na gargajiya da kuma ‘yan mata masu cin ganyayyaki. Abun shine, yana da sauƙi idan zan iya cin abincinta kuma ta iya ci nawa,” in ji Burke. Duk da haka, cin dacewa ba shine kawai dalilin da Burke yake so ya sami abokiyar rai mai irin abincin ba. Dalilin kuma na da'a. A ra'ayinsa, cin nama fasiƙanci ne.
“Ba zan iya jure cin nama ba, kamar yadda mutane ke dukan ‘ya’yansu. Ba na son zama wani ɓangare na zaluncin dabba, "in ji Burke.
Duk da haka, samun budurwa mai cin ganyayyaki (aboki) yayi kama da neman allura a cikin hay. Kungiyar masu cin ganyayyaki ta Biritaniya ta kiyasta cewa akwai masu cin ganyayyaki 150 a cikin Burtaniya daga cikin adadin mutane miliyan 000. Wannan kusan 65 ne cikin mutum 1.
Kamar Bourquet, Rob Masters, dan Landan, ba ya tunanin rayuwarsa tare da mutum mai halin cin nama. A cikin shekaru 16 na cin ganyayyaki, ya ce, wannan hanyar cin abinci ta zama wani ɓangare na halayensa. Akwai kusan masu cin ganyayyaki 20 a London. "Wannan na iya zama abin ban sha'awa, amma a zahiri 000% na yawan jama'a ne. Da wuya ku hadu kwatsam. Dangane da haka, yana shirya tarurrukan masu cin ganyayyaki a Landan.
A cewar Masters, mata masu cin ganyayyaki sun fi iya jure sha'awar cin abinci mara kyau.
"Lokacin da abokaina da ni da masu cin ganyayyaki suka taru, muna barin kanmu wani lokaci don yin korafi game da matan da ba sa cin ganyayyaki," in ji Masters.
Ɗauki Arden Levine daga New York a matsayin misali. Bayan saduwa da mijinta, ta kasance mai cin ganyayyaki na ɗan lokaci kuma kwanan nan ta zama mai cin ganyayyaki. “A kwananmu na biyu, ya gaya mani cewa ya sayi littattafan dafa abinci guda biyu masu cin ganyayyaki. Yadda yake buɗe sabon abu ga kowane abu ya burge ni sosai,” in ji Levin, “Ba na iyakacin abin da mijina yake ci.”
Tabbas, akwai kuma maza waɗanda suke shirye su kasance masu sassauƙa da juriya ga abinci mai gina jiki na abokin aurensu. Gary McIndoy ya zama mai cin ganyayyaki yana da shekaru 12. Ya girma a arewacin Scotland, inda damar saduwa da yarinya mai cin ganyayyaki ya kusa sifili. A halin yanzu, budurwarsa mai cin ganyayyaki ce, kuma yana karɓar ta da wannan abincin. “Akwai ji yayin da mutane, duk da bambance-bambancen da ke tsakaninsu, suna goyon bayan juna da kuma yarda da juna. Kuma yana aiki, ”in ji shi.
Masters ya ce: "Tabbas zan fi son mai cin ganyayyaki a matsayin abokin rayuwa, amma ba za ku taɓa sanin wanda zuciyarku za ta zaɓa ba."