Abubuwan da ke haifar da matsaloli a fili su ne matsaloli da matsalolin da suke iya gani da ido kuma za a iya magance su a matakin hankali.
Idan yarinya ta kasance ita kadai don kawai tana zaune a gida ba ta zuwa ko'ina, da farko a ba ta shawarar ta fadada zamantakewarta.
Waɗannan matsaloli ne waɗanda galibi a bayyane suke ga ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ɗabi'a da kuma mutumin da kansa. Mutum yana sane da matsalolinsa, amma ko dai ba zai iya jurewa da su ba, ko kuma ya yi ta rashin inganci.
"Ka sani, ina da matsaloli tare da ƙwaƙwalwar ajiya da hankali", ko "Ban amince da maza ba", "Ban san yadda zan saba a kan titi ba", "Ba zan iya tsara kaina ba".
Jerin irin waɗannan matsalolin yana da tsawo, a maimakon haka ana iya rage shi zuwa nau'in "jahohin matsala" da "matsala dangantaka". Matsalolin jihohi sune tsoro, damuwa, jaraba, psychosomatics, babu kuzari, matsaloli tare da son rai da kamun kai bisa manufa… Matsalolin dangantaka - kadaici, kishi, rikice-rikice, haɗe-haɗe marasa lafiya, rashin daidaituwa…
Matsalolin ciki za a iya karkasa su ta wasu hanyoyi, alal misali, kamar ruhi da matsaloli, matsaloli tare da kai, matsalolin tunani, matsalolin ɗabi'a, matsalolin tunani, matsalolin ɗabi'a.
Aikin masanin ilimin halin dan Adam
Magana mai mahimmanci, mai ilimin halin dan Adam zai iya kuma ya kamata ya magance duk wani ciki, amma kawai tare da matsalolin tunani. Duk da haka, a cikin halin da ake ciki inda mutane ke da zabi - don juya zuwa ga maƙwabci, ƙwararren masanin ilimin halin dan Adam ko mai duba, aikin masanin ilimin kimiyya zai iya yin ma'ana - ana iya ɗauka cewa ko da shawarwarin duniya ba za su kasance mafi muni fiye da shawarwarin ba. na fortunetellers, Bugu da ƙari, tare da kusan kowane buƙatun, yana iya yiwuwa a sha'awar abokin ciniki wani batu, wanda ya shafi ilimin halin dan Adam.
Idan yanzu masanin ilimin halayyar dan adam ya ba da inganci, shawarwarin ƙwararru, ya yi aiki sosai da ƙwarewa.
A gefe guda kuma, idan masanin ilimin halayyar ɗan adam yana jin bai cancanta ba a cikin buƙatar abokin ciniki kuma yana iya ɗauka cewa abokin ciniki ya fi buƙatar taimakon zamantakewa, likita ko tabin hankali, to yana da kyau a tura shi zuwa ga ƙwararrun ƙwararrun.
The psychopath ba abokinmu bane.
Ana iya magance babban adadin matsalolin cikin gida na bayyane kai tsaye, wani lokaci ta hanyar bayani, wani lokaci ta hanyar jiyya (psychotherapy).