"M+F. Dangantaka inda duka biyu nasara

"M+F. Dangantaka inda duka biyu nasara

Pavel Kochkin - dan kasuwa, kocin

Mai magana ya bayyana matakai bakwai na dangantaka da nau'o'in kudade guda shida da mace da namiji ke musayar su. Sanin waɗannan ƙa'idodi masu sauƙi zai taimaka wajen cimma daidaituwa a cikin ma'aurata, lokacin da kowane abokin tarayya yana da damar da za su gane makomarsu ta dabi'a kuma ta kai matsayi mai girma.

"Ƙauna, ƙauna, zurfin yakini. Me zai hana ku farin ciki a cikin dangantaka?

Yakov Kochetkov - asibiti psychologist, darektan Cibiyar Fahimi Therapy (Moscow), babban mashawarci a asibitin Udesroze (Latvia).

Me ya sa yake da wuya mutane su kula da dangantaka? Amsa ɗaya ga wannan tambayar ita ce, tsararrun tsare-tsare na farko suna tasiri dangantakarmu. Tsare-tsare na farko suna daurewa imani game da kai da sauransu sakamakon abubuwan da suka faru na ƙuruciya, da kuma hanyoyin dawwama daidai da hanyoyin kiyaye alaƙa da wasu. Abin baƙin ciki shine, waɗannan imani da halaye sukan shiga cikin hanyar dangantakarmu. Mai magana zai taimake ka ka kawar da waɗannan halayen.

"Dangantaka VS Love"

Vladimir Dashevsky - psychotherapist, dan takarar na m kimiyyar

Elena Ershova - asibiti psychologist, sexologist, shawara psychologist, malamin ilimin halin dan Adam

Yawancin dalilai na neman taimako daga masu ilimin halayyar kwakwalwa suna da alaƙa da dangantaka a cikin ma'aurata. Malamai za su yi nazarin mafi yawansu:

• “Yakan yi mini dukan tsiya, yana yi mani ba’a kuma yana yi mani barazana da kisan aure. Zaki iya masa bayanin cewa saki yayi yawa?
• "Yaya zan bar mutumin da bana son barin?"
• “Ina tsoron matata. Ina son ita ma ta ji tsorona.
• “Yana ba ni haushi lokacin da mijina ya yi barazanar kashe ni. Ta yaya ba za a yi fushi ba?
• "Koyawa yadda ake jifa mata da kyau, in ba haka ba suna son bayani saboda wasu dalilai."
• "Ina matukar son mutumin, amma ba shi da ni… Ta yaya zai dauki fansa akan wannan?"

"Ƙauna da kusanci a cikin ma'aurata: masu canzawa"

Maria Tikhonova - psychologist, psychotherapist, horo shugaban

Abokan hulɗa sau da yawa suna shan azaba da shakku game da yadda dangantakar ke da ƙarfi, yadda zurfin ƙaunar su ke. Canje-canjen yanayin zafi na dangantaka yana da wahala a tantance daidai gwargwadon sharuddan ƙididdiga. Amma duk da haka muna jin cewa tsananin sha'awar ba iri ɗaya ba ne a matakai daban-daban na juyin halittar ma'aurata. Yadda za a gina dangantaka mai zurfi da jituwa a cikin wannan duniyar sha'awa mai rauni?

Wane iri ne ma'auratanku? Yaya yanayin zafi na dangantaka ke canzawa tare da sauyawa zuwa lokaci na kwanciyar hankali bayan tashin hankali farkon labari? Ta yaya kasancewar yara ke shafar dangantakar ma'aurata? Yadda za a dawo da sha'awa mai zurfi da sha'awa a cikin dangantaka lokacin da sha'awar ya zama kamar rasa har abada? Masanin ilimin halayyar dan adam zai amsa waɗannan tambayoyin.