Mai zurfin gamsuwa da son da ake yi masa, erotomaniac ya zarce wanda ya shahara da mawaƙin: erotomania na iya haifar da shi ga halayen abin zargi. Ta yaya za a gano wannan cuta ta jima'i? Yadda za a amsa a matsayin wanda aka azabtar da erotomaniac? Makullin fahimtar erotomania, wanda kuma aka sani da Clérambault syndrome.

Erotomania shine ainihin ilimin halin mahaifa. Wannan cuta ta jima'i tana haifar da tabbaci mai zurfi, ba daidai ba, na ƙauna. The erotomaniac galibi mace ce. Dangane da mutumin da abin so guda ɗaya, gabaɗaya mutum ne wanda ake ɗaukar ayyukan zamantakewa ko ƙwararru a cikin hankalin kowa a matsayin mafi fifiko: malami, likita, lauya ko ma wani janar na jama'a-ɗan siyasa musamman - ko shahararre - shahararren marubuci, mawaƙin gaye…

Fiye da rainin hankali na matashi don tauraruwar da ta fi so, wanda hotonta ke nunawa akan bangon ɗakin kwanan ta, erotomania haƙiƙa ce ta tabin hankali wanda sakamakonsa - wanda daga ciki erotomaniac amma kuma wanda ake ƙauna ke shan wahala. - ba sakaci bane.

Yanayin halin tabin hankali a halin yanzu baya bada damar gano musabbabin erotomania da tabbas. Wannan rashin lafiyar jima'i, kamar sauran mutane, duk da haka ana iya bayyana shi ta hanyar raunin tunanin da aka samu yayin ƙuruciya - aƙalla a sashi. 

Mafarki na yaudara na ƙauna, erotomania yana bin ci gaba a matakai da yawa: bege, duk da haka bacin rai. A kowane hali, dole ne a haifar da yanayin erotomaniac.

Abubuwan da ke haifar da hauka

Haƙiƙanin ɗimbin ɗimbin ɗimbin ɗimbin ɗimbin ɗabi'a dole ya ɗauki asalinsa a cikin kalma ko ɗabi'a bisa ƙaƙƙarfan abin da mutum yake so na rashin so. Wannan mutumin, ba da son rai ba, yana magana da erotomaniac ta yadda ƙarshen zai fassara kalmomi ko ayyukan abokin huldarsa a matsayin shaidar soyayya mai tsananin ƙarfi. Don haka ne wanda aka azabtar da shi, a cikin tunanin erotomaniac, shine asalin labarin soyayya ta yaudara. Ta haka ne aka shawo kan a ƙaunace shi, erotomaniac yana aiwatar da hanyoyin ci gaba da haɗin gwiwa da yin tasiri labarin soyayya mai ban sha'awa, mai dorewa da gefe ɗaya, wanda dole ya ƙare cikin rashin nasara tare da sakamako mai mahimmanci ko ƙasa da haka. .

Lokacin bege na labarin erotomania

Na dogon lokaci, erotomania tana tura mutumin da ke fama da ita don ninka ƙoƙarin musayar musaya da ƙaunatacce. Aika haruffa, kasancewar sa mai dagewa a gefen sa a cikin rayuwar yau da kullun, ayyukan soyayya, erotomaniac yana haɓaka haɗin ta hanyar halayen da za a iya haɗa su cikin hanzari. Idan babu dawowar, erotomaniac yana riƙe bege kuma yana samun bayani: wanda aka azabtar ya fi son kasancewa mai hankali game da ƙaunarsa, wasa ne na lalata da ta kafa… don tozarta, mataki na biyu na sake zagayowar erotomania.

Grudge, ji mai halakarwa

Da zarar lokacin ɓacin rai ya wuce, lokacin da erotomaniac ya fahimci cewa ba a raba soyayya, yana jin takaici mai zurfi wanda ke kai shi ga bacin rai. Yana fushi da dayan don ya sa ya yarda yana soyayya kuma yana jin bukatar ɗaukar fansa. Halinsa zai iya zama tashin hankali: hare -hare na zahiri, barazanar ko ma lalata kayan abu. 

Erotomania cuta ce mai haɗari ga jima'i ga mutumin da ya kasance abin son soyayya. Tunda erotomania cuta ce, babu amfanin ƙoƙarin magance ta ita kaɗai. Wanda aka azabtar, akasin haka, dole ne yayi magana da mutanen da suka dace kuma ya kewaye kansa da mutanen da suka dace.

Da farko, ana iya amfani da shi don yin adalci, don kare kansa daga tashin hankali na ɓarna. A mataki na biyu, yana yiwuwa a yi la’akari da tura erotomaniac zuwa sabis na kiwon lafiya masu tabin hankali. 

Erotomania yana da illa ga mutumin da abin ya shafa, a matakin mutum - ɓacin rai bayan matakin rashin mutunci - kuma dangane da adalci - matakan kawar da shi ko ma ɗaurin kurkuku idan aka kai masa mummunan hari. masoyin.

A ƙarƙashin waɗannan sharuɗɗan, yana da mahimmanci a fara yin aikin likita: mafita dangane da ilimin halin ƙwaƙwalwa ko maganin magunguna akwai don taimakawa erotomania.