Rikicin ma'aurata zai sa ya yiwu a yi tsawon rai
Sabunta Afrilu 2012 - Sanarwa ga waɗanda suka tsara alaƙar soyayyar da ba ta da rikici: matsawa fushi na iya rage tsawon rayuwar ma'aurata!
Bayan nazari1 Abin mamaki da aka yi a shekara ta 2008 akan ma'aurata 192 a wani ƙaramin gari a Michigan, Amurka, haɗarin mutuwa zai fi girma ga ma'auratan da suka kafa ma'aurata inda aka danne fushi da kuma guje wa rikici.
Wannan ƙaddamarwa ta samo asali ne daga shekaru 17 na abubuwan lura inda aka rarraba ma'aurata bisa ga halayen da ma'aurata suka nuna a cikin yanayi na rikici.
Daga cikin ma'aurata 26 da suka hada da abokan aure da suka guje wa rikici ko kuma wadanda ba su yi magana kadan ba, yiwuwar mutuwar ma'auratan biyu sun ninka sau hudu fiye da wanda akalla daya daga cikin ma'auratan biyu ke nuna fushinsa akai-akai.
Musamman ma, a cikin 23% na ma'aurata "ba tare da rikici ba", duka ma'aurata sun mutu a lokacin binciken akan 6% a wasu ma'aurata. Hakazalika, 27% na ma'aurata "marasa rikici" sun rasa ma'aurata, idan aka kwatanta da 19% a tsakanin sauran ma'aurata. Waɗannan sakamakon sun ci gaba ko da bayan ware wasu abubuwan haɗari na mutuwa.
Bambance-bambance tsakanin maza da mata
A daidai wannan lokacin (1971 zuwa 1988), 35% na mazan da ke cikin ma'auratan da ba a yi musayar magana mai karfi ba sun mutu, idan aka kwatanta da 17% a tsakanin sauran ma'aurata. A cikin mata, kashi 17% da ke rayuwa a cikin ma'aurata marasa rikici sun mutu, idan aka kwatanta da kashi 7%.
A cewar marubucin binciken, magance rikice-rikice a matsayin ma’aurata al’amari ne da ya shafi lafiyar al’umma tunda ta hanyar danne shi, fushi yana kara wa wasu abubuwan damuwa kuma yana taimakawa wajen rage rayuwa.
"Saboda rikice-rikice ba makawa ne, abin da ya fi dacewa shine yadda kowane ma'aurata ke warware su: idan ba ku gyara matsalar ba, kuna da rauni," in ji Ernest Harburg, farfesa a fannin ilimin halin dan Adam a Jami'ar Michigan.2.
Bar don karayar zuciya! Duk da haka, ba duk rikice-rikicen ma'aurata ba ne ake warwarewa ... Duk da haka, don ba da damar ma'aikatansa su murmure daga rabuwa, wani kamfani na Japan - Himes & Co. - ya ba su izinin barin, tsawon lokacin ya dogara da shekarun su. Ga ma'aikaci, rabuwar soyayya yana buƙatar raguwa "kamar lokacin da ba ku da lafiya". Misali, masu shekaru 24 da kasa suna iya samun hutun kwana daya a kowace shekara, yayin da masu shekaru 25 zuwa 29 za su iya samun kwana biyu. Karyayyun zukata masu shekaru 30 zuwa sama suna da haƙƙin jinkiri na kwana uku kowace shekara. Wataƙila wata rana za a ƙididdige tsawon lokacin wannan hutu bisa ga girman… na ma'aurata! Daga The Globe & Mail |
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1. Harburg E, Kaciroti N, et al, Nau'in Haushin Haushin Aure Na Iya Yin Aiki A Matsayin Halin da Zai Shafi Mutuwa : Sakamakon Farko Daga Nazari Mai Zuwa, Jaridar Sadarwar Iyali, Janairu 2008.
2. Sakin labarai da aka bayar Janairu 22, 2008 ta Makarantar Kiwon Lafiyar Jama'a ta Jami'ar Michigan: www.ns.umich.edu [an shiga Fabrairu 7, 2008].