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Abokai, Ina so in raba gwaninta a kan batutuwa «Matsaloli» da «Ayyukan». An same shi tare da ɗaliban Jami'ar, waɗanda ke tsunduma cikin nesa.

Menene ake ɗaukar matsala a cikin magana kuma yadda za a rufe matsalar?

Abu na farko da muka amince a kai shi ne:

Matsala labari ne game da wani abu mara kyau - game da gaskiya, game da zato, game da shakku, game da yanayin al'amura akan wani aiki..

Har ma sun zo da hoto: lokacin da muke magana game da matsala - wato, game da wani abu mara kyau - yi tunanin cewa ka bude kwalba da wani abu mara kyau, namomin kaza ko wani abu dabam. Kamshi masu ban al'ajabi suna fitowa daga wannan tulun, kuma kuna riƙe shi ga abokan hulɗarku: “Abokai, kuma ina da shi a nan, ku shaƙa shi,” sai ku shaƙa shi da kanku kuma ku ci gaba: “Ugh, i, wannan shi ne! Wannan naku ne!"

Jin dadi sosai yanzu kira matsalar buɗaɗɗen kwalba. Ka sani, wasu mutane suna iya buɗe dozin biyu na waɗannan gwangwani a cikin minti biyar na tattaunawa.

Misalai?

"Na yi wannan atisayen, amma wani abu bai same ni ba, tun daga ranar farko akwai wani irin juriya, kuma ba zan iya ba… a nan..."

"Wani abu ba ya ci gaba tare da aikinmu, abokan aiki, a fili ba mu aiki da kyau"

"Ka yi tunanin, farashin man fetur ya sake tashi, saboda..."

Hooray, bankuna uku a bude suke! Kuna ji? 🙂

Say mai:

Bankuna-matsalolin ya kamata a rufe

Ta yaya daidai don rufe irin waɗannan bankunan? Yana da sauƙi a gare su su ci nau'i biyu na sutura.

Na farko: in faɗi abin da kai kanka ke shirin yi dangane da wannan.

"Na yi wannan atisayen, amma wani abu bai same ni ba, tun daga ranar farko an sami juriya, kuma ba zan iya ba… a nan… Don haka, na yi shirin canza tsarin aiwatar da kisa a mako mai zuwa, zan karanta littafin. sharhin sauran ɗalibai, yadda suka yi kuma suka zaɓi dace da ku.

An rufe banki daya.

Na biyu shi ne bayar da umarni kai tsaye ko kai tsaye (misali, ta hanyar tambaya).

"Wani abu ba ya ci gaba da aikinmu, abokan aiki, a fili ba mu aiki da kyau. Ina ba da shawara a daren yau mu taru mu yanke shawarar abin da za mu yi na gaba."

An rufe banki na biyu.

Koyaushe rufe matsaloli tare da ko dai sanarwar nufinku ko umarninku, in ba haka ba za su yi, nadama, yin wari. Wanene yake bukata? Haka ne, ba kowa.

Abin da za a yi a cikin motsa jiki:

  • Bibiyar magana a cikin jawabinku, da zaran kun lura da matsalar buɗaɗɗen kwalba - nan da nan rufe ta.
  • Duba don matsalolin banki a cikin maganganun wasu kuma da zaran kun lura da bude ɗaya, yi ko dai tambayar «Me kuke shirin yi? ko tambayar "Me muke bukata mu yi yanzu?" (tabbas, kalmomin tambayoyin sun bambanta dangane da dangantakar da mutum da kuma rabon matsayin ku).

Da kyau, idan "tulun ku" ya cika yanayi tare da ƙanshi mai daɗi na 'ya'yan itace ko vanilla, ko ƙanshi mai ban sha'awa na kofi mai sabo, to, kada ku yi jinkirin ba da wannan biki ga wasu! Ko da yake, wannan game da wani motsa jiki ne.


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