Lokacin da sha'awar su na tsammanin jariri ba zai yiwu ba a cikin wani ciki ba tare da bata lokaci ba, yawancin ma'aurata sun juya zuwa AMP (Taimakawa Magungunan Haihuwa) ko AMP. Nisa daga kusancin aure, an kama mu a cikin ka'idar likitanci wanda ya zama mahimmin tsaka-tsaki wajen aiwatar da aikinmu. Yayin da muke ƙoƙari, jikinmu yana da kayan aiki, ya miƙe don gane aikin wannan yaron.
Taimakon ilimin kimiyya
A yau, ƙungiyoyin kiwon lafiya sun sami babban ci gaba don tallafawa ma'auratan da suka ji bukatar. A lokacin yunƙurin, ana tallafa mana don kada mu ƙyale baƙin ciki, rashin adalci, ko ma fidda rai su mamaye kanmu; don su iya sake mayar da abin da suke tsammani a lokacin daukar ciki, a kan jaririn da ake sa ran, kuma ba a kan kawai sha'awar zama iyaye ba domin a karshe su kasance kamar sauran ma'aurata. Wani lokaci, dole ne ku sami taimako daga masanin ilimin halayyar dan adam, don nemo hanyar tattaunawa tare da abokin ku idan ya cancanta. (kuma babu abin kunya!)
Babban damuwa
Lokacin da ciki ya faru, muna fuskantar shi a matsayin nasara ta gaske, muna jin lokacin farin ciki mai girma, wanda ke tare da sanarwar wani abin farin ciki. Kuma irin shakku ko damuwa kamar yadda a cikin duk iyaye na gaba suna tasowa, wani lokacin ma sun fi girma. Bayan irin wannan tsayin daka, sha'awar yana da ƙarfi don samun ɗa, dukanmu biyu muna jin shirye don maraba da jariri kuma mu kula da shi. Amma da zarar an haifi jariri, wani lokaci yana da kyau kuma muna fuskantar kanmu da kuka, kafa tsarin barci, ƙananan damuwa na ciyarwa. Ƙwararrun ƙwararrun yara da ƙananan yara (likitoci, ungozoma, ma'aikatan jinya) suna nan don taimaka mana mu shirya cikin nutsuwa don sabon aikinmu, ba a matsayin "cikakkiyar iyaye" amma a matsayin "iyaye masu kulawa".
An ɗauko wannan labarin daga littafin tunani na Laurence Pernoud: J'attends un enfant 2018 edition)