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Biran Bonobo an bambanta su da zaman lafiya. Hakanan, halayensu ba za a iya kiransu da tsabta ba: yin jima'i yana da sauƙi a gare su kamar yadda muke gaisawa. Amma ba al'ada ba ne a gare su su yi kishi, fada da karbar soyayya tare da taimakon karfi.
Wadannan pygmy chimpanzees sun shahara ba tare da sabawa juna ba, kuma ana magance duk matsalolin su ... tare da taimakon jima'i. Kuma idan bonobos yana da taken, mai yiwuwa zai yi kama da wannan - yin soyayya, ba yaƙi ba.
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Ƙarin jima'i - ƙananan fada
Fyade, cin zarafi, har ma da kisan kai - chimpanzees suna da irin wannan bayyanar ta'addanci a cikin tsari na abubuwa. Babu wani abu makamancin haka a cikin bonobos: da zarar rikici ya taso tsakanin mutane biyu, ko shakka babu mutum daya zai yi kokarin kashe shi da taimakon soyayya. "Chimps suna amfani da tashin hankali don yin jima'i, yayin da bonobos ke amfani da jima'i don guje wa tashin hankali," in ji masanin ilimin farko, Frans de Waal. Kuma neuropsychologist James Prescott, bayan nazarin bayanan binciken da yawa, ya yanke shawara mai ban sha'awa: ƙarancin jima'i da ƙuntatawa a cikin rukuni, ƙananan rikice-rikice a ciki. Wannan gaskiya ne ga al'ummomin ɗan adam kuma.1.
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Feminism yana da kyau ga kowa
A cikin al'ummar bonobo, babu wani ubangida da ya saba da yawancin nau'ikan nau'ikan: an raba iko tsakanin maza da mata. Akwai matan alpha a cikin ƙungiyar, waɗanda suka fice don halayensu masu zaman kansu, kuma ba ya taɓa faruwa ga kowa ya ƙalubalanci hakan.
Bonobos ba su da tsattsauran salon tarbiyya: yara ba sa tsawa, ko da kuwa sun kasance masu lalata kuma suna ƙoƙarin cire wani yanki daidai daga bakin babba. Akwai dangantaka ta musamman tsakanin uwaye da ’ya’ya maza, kuma matsayin namiji a matsayi ya ta’allaka ne da yadda mahaifiyarsa ke da iko.
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Hadin kai shine karfi
Yin jima'i na tilas ba kasafai ba ne a cikin bonobos. Mafi yawa saboda gaskiyar cewa mata suna gudanar da tsayayya da tsangwama daga mazaje, suna taruwa a cikin ƙungiyoyi masu kusa. "Idan mata suka nuna hadin kai kuma suka yi aiki bisa ka'idar "daya ga kowa da kowa," ba a yarda da zalunci namiji ba," in ji Christopher Ryan, marubucin Jima'i a Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality, Harper, 2010) .
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Kyakkyawan jima'i ba koyaushe yana buƙatar inzali ba.
Yawancin jima'i na bonobo yana iyakance ga taɓawa, shafa al'aura, da sauri shiga jikin wani (har ma ana kiransa "musafikan hannu"). A lokaci guda, a gare su, amma a gare mu, soyayya yana da matukar muhimmanci: suna sumbata, rike hannayensu (da kafafu!) Kuma suna kallon idanun juna yayin jima'i.
Bonobos ya fi son yin bikin kowane abu mai daɗi ta hanyar yin jima'i.
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Kishi ba soyayya bace
Don soyayya yana nufin samun? Ba don bonobos kawai ba. Ko da yake sun san abin da ke cikin aminci da sadaukarwa, ba sa neman sarrafa rayuwar jima'i na abokan tarayya. Lokacin da jima'i da wasanni na batsa suka bi kusan kowace hanyar sadarwa, ba ya faruwa ga kowa ya jefa abin kunya ga abokin tarayya wanda ya yanke shawarar yin kwarkwasa da maƙwabcinsa.
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Soyayyar 'yanci ba alamar raguwa ba ce
Dabi'ar bonobos na yin jima'i a yanayi daban-daban na iya bayyana girman ci gaban zamantakewarsu. Aƙalla, buɗewarsu, zamantakewar su da ƙarancin damuwa ana kiyaye su akan wannan. A cikin yanayin da muke jayayya da neman hanyar gama gari, bonobos sun fi son shiga cikin kurmi kuma su sami tashin hankali mai kyau. Ba mafi munin zaɓi ba idan kuna tunani game da shi.
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A rayuwa koyaushe akwai wurin jin daɗi
Bonobos baya rasa damar da zai faranta wa kansu da sauran mutane rai. Lokacin da suka sami wani magani, nan da nan za su iya yin bikin wannan taron - ba shakka, yin jima'i. Bayan haka, zaune a cikin da'irar, za su ji daɗin abincin rana mai dadi tare. Kuma babu yaƙi don tidbit - wannan ba chimpanzee ba ne!
1 J. Prescott "Jin Jiki da Tushen Rikici", Bulletin of the Atomic Scientists, Nuwamba 1975.