Idan shiga ciki hanya ce mai kyau don kaiwa ga inzali, shafawa na iya shiga. Daga shirye -shiryen farko zuwa aikin jima'i, ta yaya za a kula da abokin tarayya? Sha'awar sha’awa ko sha’awar jima’i, wanene sha’awar sha’awa ke haifar da ƙara jin daɗi? Makullin jin daɗin 100% ga mata da maza.

A daidai madaidaiciya kuma a wuraren da suka dace, shafawa na iya tayar da hankali da ƙara sha'awa.

Sha'awar sha’awa don fara jima’i

Sai dai idan suna son saurin sauri ko yin mummunan zina, masoya suna buƙatar shiga cikin yanayi kafin yin jima'i. Bayan farkawa ko dawowa daga aiki, abokin tarayya ba lallai bane ya karɓi saurin cire sutura da shigar azzakari ba tare da yanayin da ya gabata ba. Shafawa shine hanya mafi kyau don saita yanayin jima'i.

Tausa: don jin daɗin ɗayan kuma don nishaɗin kansa

Bayan gabatarwa ga ƙa'idodin fasaha, shaye-shayen batsa da aka yi da kyau na iya zama tushen jin daɗin juna. Ta hanyar motsa wurare masu ban sha'awa na masoyinsa, abokin tarayya zai iya kai shi ga inzali. Duk irin tsananin jin daɗin ɗayan, tsokanar jin daɗin su kuma yana ba wa marubucin abubuwan shafawa jin daɗi.

Matsalolin motsa jiki: yankuna masu zafin rai

Shafa kanku yayin wasan farko yana nufin shafar jima'i, wato zuwa al'aura: shafawa farji ko azzakari hakika shine tushen inzali, amma ana iya bincika wasu yankuna don sabon salo na jin daɗi. Kunnen kunne da wuya, ƙafafu ko bayan gwiwoyi, ciki na cinyoyi da gwiwar hannu: wurare da yawa don shafawa a ɗayan, don lura da martanin sa da sake maimaitawa sosai. 

Idan ana yawan shafawa tare da nuna fifiko, suma zasu iya haɗa aikin jima'i da kansa. Lokaci guda tare da shigar azzakari cikin farji, sha’awar sha’awa tana ƙara adadin soyayya a cikin rahoton. Shafe -shafen sha'awa kuma na iya zama hutu: ta hanyar katse aikin don shafar juna, masoya suna jinkirtawa da ƙara jin daɗinsu sau goma.

Ana shafawa da yatsun hannu, amma ba kawai ba. Don sabunta aikin jima'i da mamakin ɗayan, yana iya zama abin farin ciki don gwada sabbin hanyoyin shafawa.

Tare da wannan a zuciya, abokan hulɗa na iya amfani da numfashin su: ta hanyar busawa a cikin yankuna masu lalata, da ƙyar ake jin daɗin jin daɗin, kuma takaicin da ke haifar da rashin hulɗa da jiki na iya haɓaka sha'awar. Masoya, cikin dacewa da dabbanci, suma suna iya yin karce - a cikin iyakokin ta'aziyar ɗayan ba shakka: karce hanya ce ta jin daɗin jima'i, don ƙarin jin daɗi. Wani nau'in shafar jima’i, wanda aka fi sani da shi, shine lasa. Oral ko cunnilingus amma kuma wucewa da ƙarshen harshe akan wurare masu mahimmanci na ɗayan suna dacewa da inzali. Don yin azaba, yin sumba, yin buɗaɗɗiya ko taɓawa, hanyoyi da yawa don amfani da baki ko hannaye don shafar sha’awa da ke ba da tabbacin ƙarfi. 

Namiji yana da hankali kamar mace ga shafawa. Daga cikin mashahuran shafuffukan sha’awa, abokin tarayya na iya gwadawa:

• Tausa ma'aurata: masoyan 2 suna shiga, don jin daɗi na lokaci ɗaya. Shafin tausa na iya rufe jiki gaba ɗaya, galibi an yi niyya ne akan yankuna masu lalata.
• Binciko azzakarin mutumin da hannuwansa da bakinsa: yanki mai mahimmanci idan akwai, azzakarin, wanda aka sarrafa da hankali, na iya zama tsakiyar hankalin abokin tarayya yayin gabatar da wasan farko. Daga frenulum zuwa kallo ta cikin gwaiwa, mutum yana jin daɗin jin daɗin taɓa shi a wannan wurin. Yi hankali kada ku dage da yawa, in ba haka ba inzali zai faru da wuri fiye da yadda ake tsammani.
• Kar ku manta da sumbata: aikin jima'i ba kawai wasan kwaikwayo bane, kuma maza suna yaba son sha'awa da soyayya. Sha'awa tana shafawa a kan lebe, tauna su ko sumbace su da haɗama za a iya godiya sosai.