Masana ilimin jima'i sun tabbatar da wannan yanayin, kuma tun a gabansu an nuna karin magana game da "mace-berry sake". Shin da gaske ne idan mace ta girma, yawancin abubuwan da suka shafi jima'i suna da haske?
Tsawon shekaru, lokacin da damuwar uwaye ke komawa baya, kuma an maye gurbin damuwar samari da rukunan da gogewa da kwarin gwiwa, mata sun zama masu buɗewa, yanci da… e, kyakkyawa kuma.
Wannan furen yana faruwa ne saboda ƙaƙƙarfan haɓakar samar da sinadarin jima'i na mata kafin farkon lokacin haila. Amma yanayin ya wuce wannan lokacin: bincike ya nuna cewa mata masu shekaru 30 zuwa 40 sun fi yawan jima'i fiye da shekarun 20. XNUMXs kuma suna samun ƙarin jin daɗi kuma suna iya samun inzali da yawa.
“Balaga yana ba da damammaki masu kyau don furen jin daɗin jima'i. Amma ba zan haɗa jin daɗi kai tsaye tare da ikon samun inzali ba, - sharhin masanin ilimin jima'i Yuri Prokopenko. - Har ila yau, yana yiwuwa a yawaita jima'i da sha'awar sha'awa, amma ba a ji sakamakon jin dadi ba. Jin daɗi shine jin daɗin jin daɗin da muke fuskanta tare da jin daɗin jikinmu.
Tabbas, ƙarfin sha'awar jima'i, tashin hankali, hankali ga caresses ya bambanta ga kowa da kowa. Amma halayen ilimin lissafin jiki ba su shafar ikon mu don jin daɗi kamar yadda yanayin mu na jima'i yake.
Haƙiƙa an haɓaka fasaha da ilimin kai tsawon shekaru, amma lokaci ba ya gyara halaye masu zurfi.
Komai shekarunmu nawa, jin daɗi na iya toshewa ta hanyar hanawa da tunani mara kyau game da kanmu. Ba koyaushe za a kashe shi ta hanyar laifi, damuwa, shakka, kunya. A ƙoƙarin saduwa da tsammanin zamantakewa («lokaci ya yi da za a sami saurayi mai ƙauna!»), mace na iya nuna rayuwar jima'i mai aiki, amma a gaskiya ba za ta gamsu da dangantaka ba.
Yuri Prokopenko ya nanata cewa: "Ga mata, waɗanda ke tattare da son zuciya da tsoro, rashin jituwa tsakanin tunani da ji, ji da jima'i yawanci yana ƙaruwa da shekaru." - Kuma akasin haka, a cikin mata masu budewa don jin dadi, masu fata, a matsayin mai mulkin, digiri da yawan jin dadi yana karuwa da shekaru. Suna daidaitawa cikin sauƙi don canzawa - zamantakewa, tunani, da jiki. "
Tabbas, yawancin abubuwan da suka faru tare da hanyar rayuwa - asarar ƙaunatattun, rashin lafiya, canje-canje masu alaka da shekaru a cikin fata da jiki - iyakance 'yancin samun damar yin jima'i. Amma bayan haka, matasa kuma suna da abubuwan hanawa da yawa: damuwa game da alaƙa, dogaro da kuɗi, rashin tabbas game da gaba…
A ƙarshe, jin daɗi yana kaiwa kololuwar sa lokacin da muke hulɗa da kanmu da jikinmu, da kwarin gwiwa kan ƙimarmu, da sha'awar alaƙar da ke cikin wannan lokacin.