Contents
- Yaro yana ƙauna da mahaifiyarsa: wani nau'i na Oedipus ba haka ba ne
- Ma'anar da kuma nazarin ilimin halin dan Adam na Electra complex: Wani lokaci mai mahimmanci don gina shi
- Juyar da alaƙar oedipal: haɓaka asalin jinsi
- Rikicin Oedipus ya sake komawa: yadda za a yi a matsayin iyaye?
- Yadda za a mayar da martani ga jujjuyawar hadadden Oedipus: ayyukan ma'aurata, ma!
- A wane shekaru ne juyar da hadadden Oedipus ke ƙarewa?
Yaro yana ƙauna da mahaifiyarsa: wani nau'i na Oedipus ba haka ba ne
Anna, ’yar shekara 4, ta ce wa mahaifiyarta: “Idan na girma, zan aure ki!” “. Dama a tsakiyar Oedipus, kalmar psychoanalytic da aka gada daga hali a cikin tatsuniyoyi wanda ya kashe mahaifinta don ya auri mahaifiyarta, kawai tana son ta maye gurbin mahaifinta. "Wannan nau'in jujjuyawar inda yaron ya yi soyayya da iyayen jinsi ɗaya ba a san shi ba amma sau da yawa," in ji Stéphane Clerget, masanin ilimin hauka na yara *.
Ma'anar da kuma nazarin ilimin halin dan Adam na Electra complex: Wani lokaci mai mahimmanci don gina shi
Universal, Oedipus hadaddun yana bayyana a kusa da shekaru 3 kuma ya daina kusan shekaru 6. "Mataki mai mahimmanci, kamar koyon fasahar motsa jiki ko harshe, yana ba da damar gina ƙungiyar motsin zuciyarsa na haɗin gwiwar soyayya na gaba," in ji Dr Clerget. . Kalmar ta samo asali ne daga tatsuniyar Helenanci kuma daga halin Oedipus, sarkin Thebes wanda ya kashe mahaifinsa kuma ya yi dangantaka da mahaifiyarsa. Freud yayi baftisma dangane da wannan tatsuniyar ta Antiquity wannan cuta ta ɗabi'a ta yara. Bugu da kari, ana kuma kiran hadadden Oedipus Electra hadaddun idan mace ce ta bunkasa shi.
Juyar da alaƙar oedipal: haɓaka asalin jinsi
Don haka ta hanyar soyayyar da yake yi wa iyayensa ne ya sa yaron ya soma sha’awar jima’i da soyayya. Wannan muhimmin mataki ne a cikin ci gaban yara. A lokacin, don mu taimaka masa ya kame sha’awoyinsa da bacin rai, za mu tattauna da shi muhimman hani guda biyu na jima’i da ’yan Adam: yaro ba ya yin aure da babba, ko kuma da wani daga cikin iyalinsa. .
Kuma meyasa take kallona maimakon mahaifinta? Samuwar, raha ko yanayin aiki na iyayen da abin ya shafa na iya yin tasiri. Gano kuma: Yarinyarmu tana so ta yi kamar mahaifinta (har da faranta ranmu) kuma a cikin haka tana wasa a yin koyi da manyan da suke ƙaunar juna!
Rikicin Oedipus ya sake komawa: yadda za a yi a matsayin iyaye?
Tana kokarin sumbatar mu a baki? Idan muka fuskanci rukunin Oedipus da ke jujjuyawar, mun tsara iyakoki kuma mun bayyana masa cewa waɗannan sumba sun keɓe don ma'aurata cikin soyayya. Makasudin : "rashin amincewa"kasar! Amma game da mahaifin, "dole ne kada ya motsa, 'yarsa ba ta son shi kadan", in ji Dr. Clerget. Ta fi son in inna ce ta karanta labarin? Wataƙila mun fi shi kulawa da ita… Kamar yadda baba ya fi rera waƙar. Ya rage gare shi don nemo lokacin da zai kula da haɗin gwiwa. Sannan, babu abin da zai hana mu cewa: “A can, baba ko babu!” “. Ko da karanta labarin tare, kuna bayyana, idan ta yi magana, cewa muna so mu sami mijinmu a gefenmu… to sannu a hankali mu bar shi ya karbi ragamar mulki.
Yadda za a mayar da martani ga jujjuyawar hadadden Oedipus: ayyukan ma'aurata, ma!
Aiwatar da ayyuka a matsayin ma'aurata da kuma samun wasu sha'awa kuma yana taimaka wa yaron ya fahimci cewa bai isa ya ciyar da mahaifiyarsa ba, kuma ya bar wannan filin haihuwa.
A wane shekaru ne juyar da hadadden Oedipus ke ƙarewa?
Kamar yadda yake tare da hadadden Oedipus ko hadaddun Electra lambda, jujjuyawar hadaddun yara zai ƙare kusan shekaru 6. Lallai a wannan shekarun ne yaron ya gane cewa auren mahaifinsa ko mahaifiyarsa ba zai yiwu ba.
* Stéphane Clerget mawallafin litattafai da dama da suka hada da “Yayan mu su ma suna da jinsi, ta yaya ake zama yarinya ko namiji. ? (Ed. Robert Laffont).