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Haɗu da Carl Rogers shine juyowar rayuwata gaba ɗaya. Babu wani abin da ya faru a cikinsa wanda ya yi tasiri sosai kuma a fili ya yi tasiri ga kaddara ta sirri da ta sana'a. A cikin kaka na 1986, tare da 40 abokan aiki na dauki bangare a cikin wani m sadarwa kungiyar, wanda aka gudanar a Moscow da manyan wakilin dan Adam Psychology Carl Rogers. Taron ya ɗauki kwanaki da yawa, amma ya canza ni, ra'ayoyina, haɗe-haɗe, halaye. Ya yi aiki tare da kungiyar kuma a lokaci guda yana tare da ni, ya ji kuma ya gan ni, ya ba ni damar zama kaina.
Carl Rogers ya yi imanin cewa kowane mutum ya cancanci kulawa, girmamawa da karɓa. Wadannan ka'idoji na Rogers sun zama tushen jiyya, "hanyoyin da suka shafi mutum" gabaɗaya. Don aikinsa bisa waɗannan ra'ayoyi masu kama da sauƙi, an zaɓi Carl Rogers don lambar yabo ta zaman lafiya ta Nobel a 1987. Labarin wannan ya zo masa lokacin da yake cikin hayyacin mutuwa.
Babban cancantar ɗan Adam na Carl Rogers, a ganina, ya ta'allaka ne a cikin gaskiyar cewa ya sami damar yin da halayensa hadadden aikin ciki na zama ɗan adam ɗan adam - ɗan adam. Don haka, ya buɗe wa mutane da yawa "Laboratory of Humanism", ta hanyar da duk wanda ke neman kafa farko a cikin kansa, sa'an nan kuma a cikin dangantakar wasu mutane pax humana - duniya mutuntaka ta wuce.
Kwanakin sa
- 1902: An haife shi a Chicago.
- 1924-1931: Aikin noma, ilimin tauhidi, sannan - MS, Ph.D. a Psychology daga Teachers College, Jami'ar Columbia.
- 1931: Masanin ilimin likitanci a Cibiyar Taimakon Yara (Rochester).
- 1940-1957: Farfesa a Jami'ar Jihar Ohio, sannan a Jami'ar Chicago.
- 1946-1947: Shugaban Ƙungiyar Ƙwararrun Ƙwararru ta Amirka.
- 1956-1958: Shugaban Cibiyar Nazarin Kwayoyin Halitta ta Amurka.
- 1961: Ɗaya daga cikin waɗanda suka kafa Ƙungiyar Ƙwararrun Ƙwararrun Ƙwararrun Dan Adam.
- 1968: Ya buɗe Cibiyar Nazarin Mutum a La Jolla, California. 1969: Tafiya na shirinsa zuwa Kai, game da aikin ƙungiyar psychotherapy, ya lashe Oscar.
- 1986: Gudanar da ƙungiyoyin sadarwa mai zurfi tare da masana ilimin halayyar dan adam a Moscow da Tbilisi.
- Fabrairu 14, 1987: ya mutu a La Jolla, California.
Maɓallai biyar don fahimta:
Kowa yana da damar
"Dukkan mutane suna da ikon gina rayuwarsu ta yadda zai ba su gamsuwa kuma a lokaci guda yana da kyau a cikin zamantakewa." Mutane sukan ci gaba a hanya mai kyau. Wannan ba yana nufin zai kasance haka ba, amma an haifi kowa da irin wannan damar. Yayinda yake yaro, Rogers ya lura da yawancin rayuwa na halitta, musamman, ci gaban butterflies. Wataƙila, godiya ga tunani game da canjin su, an haifi hasashensa game da yuwuwar ɗan adam, daga baya yana goyan bayan aikin ilimin psychotherapeutic da binciken kimiyya.
saurare a ji
"Ba komai zurfin abin da mutum yake magana akai ba, ina sauraronsa da dukkan hankali, himma, wanda zan iya." Muna yawan magana, amma ba ma saurare ko jin juna. Amma jin kimar mutum, mahimmanci ya taso a matsayin martani ga hankalin wani a gare mu. Lokacin da aka ji mu, an kawar da shinge - al'adu, addini, launin fata; akwai taron mutum da mutum.
Fahimtar mutumin
"Babban bincikena zan tsara kamar haka: Na fahimci babban darajar ƙyale kaina na fahimtar wani mutum." Halin farko ga mutane shine sha'awar tantance su. Da wuya mukan ƙyale kanmu mu fahimci abin da kalmomi, ji, imanin wani suke nufi a gare shi. Amma wannan halin ne yake taimaka wa wani ya yarda da kansa da kuma yadda yake ji, yana canza mu kanmu, yana bayyana wani abu da ya guje mana a baya. Har ila yau, wannan gaskiya ne a cikin dangantaka ta psychotherapeutic: ba fasaha na musamman na tunani ba ne masu yanke shawara, amma yarda mai kyau, rashin tausayi da kuma ainihin kai tsaye na mai ilimin hanyoyin kwantar da hankali da abokin ciniki.
Buɗewa shine abin da ake buƙata don dangantaka
"Daga abin da na sani da wasu, na kammala cewa a cikin dangantaka mai tsawo babu amfanin yin kamar wanda ba ni ba." Ba shi da ma'ana don yin kamar kuna ƙauna idan kuna da ƙiyayya, don zama kamar natsuwa idan kun kasance mai fushi da zargi. Dangantaka sun zama na kwarai, cike da rayuwa da ma'ana lokacin da muka saurari kanmu, bude wa kanmu kuma, sabili da haka, ga abokin tarayya. Ingancin dangantakar ɗan adam ya dogara da ikonmu na ganin ko wanene mu, yarda da kanmu, ba ɓoyewa a bayan abin rufe fuska ba - daga kanmu da sauransu.
Taimaka wa wasu su sami lafiya
Ƙirƙirar yanayi wanda za ku iya bayyana kanku a fili, jin ku, wato, mai kyau ga ci gaban ɗan adam, aiki ne ba kawai ga masu ilimin halin dan adam ba. Ya kamata a yi aiki da duk waɗanda suka san sana'o'in zamantakewa, ya kamata a inganta shi ta hanyar sirri, iyali, masu sana'a - a cikin kalma, kowane dangantaka ta mutum. Kowannenmu zai iya taimakawa wajen inganta mutum daidai da nufinsa da manufofinsa.
Littattafai da labarai na Carl Rogers:
- Kallon psychotherapy. Samuwar Mutum” (Ci gaba, Univers, 1994);
- "Nasiha da ilimin halin dan Adam" (Eksmo, 2000);
- "'Yancin Koyo" (Sense, 2002);
- "Tsarin abokin ciniki a cikin ilimin halin mutum" (Tambayoyin Ilimin Halittu, 2001, No. 2).