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Lokaci yana canzawa, halaye ga wasu da kanmu suna canzawa. Amma wannan stereotype game da jima'i ko ta yaya yana rayuwa. Masananmu sun musanta hakan - masana ilimin jima'i Alain Eril da Mireille Bonyerbal.
An dade da kafawa a cikin al'umma cewa maza sun fi jin bukatar jima'i, samun karin abokan jima'i kuma ba su da zabi a cikin dangantaka. Duk da haka, maza da kansu suna ƙara cewa suna fuskantar rashin haɗin kai tare da abokin tarayya da kuma tausayi a cikin dangantaka. A cikin wadannan ra'ayoyin wanne ya fi kusa da gaskiya?
"Mata sun fi son yin jima'i yayin da suke balaga"
Alain Eriel, masanin ilimin psychoanalyst, masanin ilimin jima'i
Ta fuskar ilimin halittar jiki, fitar maniyyi a kullum ya zama dole ga namiji don gudanar da aikin da ya dace na maniyyi da prostate. Wasu majinyata suna shawartar masu ilimin urologist su yi al'aurar sau ɗaya a rana. A zahiri hanya ce ta likita! A cikin mata, hanyoyin da ke haifar da sha'awa sun fi dacewa da abubuwa kamar yanayi, yanayi, tunaninta.
Sha'awar mace ba ta ƙarewa ta hanyar jiki kuma fiye da hankali. Bukatunta na jima'i wani bangare ne na ci gabanta; a wannan ma'anar, mace ta fi dacewa da shirya bisa ga ka'idar "kasancewa". Mutum, a gefe guda, ya fi dacewa da gasar, zuwa gasa, sha'awar "samun" ya rinjaye shi.
"Ga namiji, jima'i hanya ce ta ce" Ina son ku"
Mireille Bonierbal, likitan hauka, masanin ilimin jima'i
Wannan magana gaskiya ce, amma da yawa a nan ya dogara da shekaru. Har zuwa shekaru 35, maza suna ƙarƙashin tasirin hormones na jima'i wanda ke mamaye su. Suna aiki kamar mafarauta. Sannan matakin testosterone yana raguwa.
Matasan mata ba su cika bin ka'idodin ilimin halitta ba; tare da farkon balaga, lokacin da hani na ciki da haram suka ɓace, sun fi son yin jima'i.
Duk da haka, idan mace ta sami ƙaunarta, to a kowane lokaci na rayuwarta ya fi sauƙi a gare ta ta yi ba tare da jima'i ba fiye da na namiji. Ga mutumin da yake yawan rowa da kalmomi, jima'i ya zama hanyar da za a ce "Ina son ku."