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Menene zama mahaifiya a 40 ya canza?
Sa'a kadan, hakuri mai yawa
Wahalar farko: kasancewa ciki. A 40, yawanci yana ɗaukar tsawon lokaci don yin ciki, aƙalla shekara guda. Tun daga wannan zamani a haƙiƙa, mace tana da kashi 10% na damar haihuwa, wanda ya ragu sau uku fiye da mai shekaru 25. Amma waɗannan ba shakka matsakaici ne kawai. A haƙiƙa, mata nawa ne masu shekaru 40 ko 42 suke da ciki ƙasa da watanni shida bayan sun daina hana haihuwa?
Wahala ta biyu: ƙetare ƙaddarorin mataki na farkon watanni uku. A wannan shekarun, zubar da ciki da wuri (katsewar ci gaban kwai tun kafin ranar haila) ya fi yawa. Don haka bayan shekaru 40, kashi 30% na masu juna biyu ba su wuce matakin wata na biyu ba. A cikin tambaya, tsufa na oocytes wanda aka adana a cikin ovaries tun watan hudu na rayuwar tayin! Kuma fiye da shekaru biyar ko goma, wannan yana da mahimmanci, a cikin oocytes ma.
Shekaru suna tafiya, to menene?
Yin ciki da tsufa ya zama ruwan dare gama gari. Yawan haihuwa bayan 40 ya ninka fiye da sau uku a cikin XNUMX na ƙarshe shekaru! A cikin 15% na lokuta, shine farkon, amma mafi yawan lokuta, dangi ne ke girma. ” A Faransa, ƙarin ma'aurata suna yanke shawarar yin na uku ko na huɗu, ba tare da ambaton gidajen da aka sake tsarawa ba! ", Evokes Farfesa Michel Tournaire, shugaban sashen haihuwa na asibitin Saint-Vincent-de-Paul, marubucin The Farin Ciki na zama uwa - Ciki bayan shekaru 35. Sa'an nan kuma, kawai, shekaru suna canzawa! Na farkon yaro ya kai kusan shekaru 30 a cikin mata, don haka, na karshen zai fito kadan daga baya kamar yadda 'yan shekarun da suka wuce.
Late ciki, yana da yayi!
Madonna ta haifi Lourdes a 39 da danta Rocco a 41. Isabelle Adjani ta haifi danta na karshe, Gabriel-Kane, yana da shekaru 40. Lio ta haifi tagwayensa Garance da Léa a shekara 37, kuma ta haifi ɗanta Diego yana da shekara 41. Lokacin da kake jagorantar rayuwar tauraro… jarirai su zo daga baya! Duk da yake suna da yawa a yau, waɗannan masu ciki marigayi ba za a ɗauki su da wasa ba! Suna buƙatar kulawa ta musamman kuma matan da suke la'akari dole ne su tambayi kansu tambayoyin da suka dace kafin farawa. : “Yaya waɗanda ke kusa da ni za su yi? "," Shin zan dakata a jiki? »,« Shin zan iya ɗaukar irin wannan bambancin shekaru tsakanin ɗana da ni? “…
Samun karbuwar cikin ku marigayi
Zuwa ga manya. Suna iya ɓoye jin daɗinsu lokacin da suka gano cewa kina da ciki. Menene abokai za su yi tunani? Sannan, dan kadan a gida, yana yin surutu! Kada ku damu, da zarar an haifi ƙane ko ’yar’uwar, za su so su riƙa kula da shi…
Dan rakiya. “Ta manta kasadar da take yi! "," Babu shakka hatsari ne ... "... Damuwar wasu, hukuncin wasu ... ba abu ne mai sauƙi ga uwa mai zuwa ta fuskanci wasu halayen. Da farko mayar da hankali kan jin daɗin ku da na jariri!
“Iyayena sun damu. Don samun ɗa a shekaru na! Ɗan’uwana ya ɗauka cewa kuskure ne babba… wannan hali, da ya kara wa wasu matsaloli, ya haifar da rushewar dangantakarmu. Sylvie, mai shekaru 45 “Dukkan abokanmu da danginmu sun riga sun haifi ‘ya’ya, wasunsu sun girma yanzu. Kowa ya gaishe da ƙaramin mala'ikanmu da farin ciki mai girma, saboda mun daɗe muna jiran shi… ”Lise, ɗan shekara 38 |
Haihuwa daga baya, menene amfanin?
An fi shigar mu. Na farko a cikin dangantakarta, amma kuma a cikin aikinmu kuma saboda haka, a gida! “Wadannan iyaye mata masu zuwa gabaɗaya suna da kyakkyawan matsayi na zamantakewa da tattalin arziki. Yana da sauƙi a gare su su yi maraba kaɗan ”in ji Farfesa Tournaire.
Mun fi wayo. “A shekara 40, kuna kula da cikin ku da kyau. Mata masu shekaru 40 suna yin taka-tsantsan fiye da samari iyaye… watakila saboda sun san muhimmancin lamarin kuma suna da ɗan ƙaramin ilimi! ”
Mun dauki gajiyarsa da barkwanci! “Lokacin da na ga sun iso ofis dina, suna kwance! Suna jin zafi lokacin da suka tashi, idan sun kwanta, amma sun sanya murmushi ga waɗannan raɗaɗin. Sun fi ƙwazo, watakila… ”…
Wani gata na shekaru: bayan shekaru 35, muna da ƙananan alamomi, saboda fata ya fi girma! (Wannan koyaushe kyakkyawan labari ne don ɗauka!)
എനിക്ക് 40 വയസ് കഴിഞ്ഞു. എന്റെ വിവാഹം താമസിച്ചാണ് നടന്നത്… എനിക്കൊരു കുഞ്ഞ് ഉണു ോ