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Akwai karancin labarun mata game da neman kanshi da kasuwancin mutum a sinimar zamani fiye da na maza. Kuma wannan baƙon abu ne: kamar dai mata ba su damu da ƙwarewar ƙirƙira ba kamar yadda ake samun ƙauna da farin cikin iyali. Koyaya, shahararrun matan Soviet da suka yi kansu daga hanyar Svetly da Ku zo gobe kuma suna iya samun canjin canjin yamma da yawa.
1. "Zrin Brokovich" Stevena Soderberga (2000)
starring: Julia Roberts, Albert Finney
Game da me? Game da Erin Brockovich, wanda ya fara neman aiki, ya bar ba tare da miji ba, ba tare da kudi ba, amma tare da ƙananan yara uku. Kasancewar wahalhalun da kan su ke yi suna kaifafa tausayawa, da kuma tausaya wa matsalolin wasu yana ba da ƙarfi da kuma taimaka wajen fahimtar ainihin abin da kuke so.
Me yasa kallo? Ba koyaushe zaka jira har sai matsananciyar bege don canza rayuwarka ba. Amma sau da yawa a cikin yanayin damuwa, kamar wanda Erin ya sami kanta, cewa "makamashi na damuwa" ya bayyana, wannan jin dadi da adrenaline wanda ke motsa mu kuma ya ba mu damar yin amfani da duk basirar mu da iyawarmu zuwa cikakke. Matsaloli na iya haifar da babban nasara.
“A karon farko a rayuwata, na ga mutane suna girmama ni. Suna sauraron abin da nake cewa. Wannan bai taba faruwa ba."
2. Yarinya mai ban dariya na William Wyler (1968)
starring: Barbra Streisand, Omar Sharif
Game da me? Game da canji na yarinya mai sauƙi daga yankunan karkarar New York zuwa babban dan wasan kwaikwayo mai ban dariya. Game da buƙatar yin imani da basirar ku, da kuma shirye-shiryen yin sadaukarwa da haɗari da ba makawa don cika burin ku.
Me yasa kallo? Bincike ya nuna cewa mutanen da suka yi nasara suna sane da ƙarfinsu da raunin su kuma suna gina sana'a a farkon. "Yarinya mai ban dariya" kyakkyawan kwatanci ne na yadda za'a iya jujjuya rukunoni zuwa halaye masu kyau, za a iya sanya mummuna haskaka ku kuma cikin nasarar gabatar da keɓaɓɓen ku ga duniya.
"Ga yarinya ta gari, kuna da kyan gani, masoyi, amma a cikin gidan wasan kwaikwayo kowa yana so ya ga wani abu mai ban mamaki, musamman maza."
3. Miss Potter na Chris Noonan (2006)
starring: Rene Zellweger, Yuan McGregor, Emily Watson
Game da me? Game da dabara, m lokacin kerawa, game da haihuwar marubucin yara Helen Beatrix Potter, marubucin tatsuniyoyi game da zomaye na Bitrus da Benjamin. Game da ƙarfin hali don zama kanku kuma ku rayu cikin yardar kaina a cikin prim, Ingila Victorian mai son zuciya, saboda Miss Potter na ɗaya daga cikin waɗanda suka canza ƙa'idodin zamantakewa.
Me yasa kallo? Tunatar da kanku game da mahimmancin ƙima da kuma kula da halin ku na yara. Yaya mahimmancin kasancewa tare da ɗanku na ciki, wanda koyaushe yana cike da ra'ayoyi da fantasies. Irin wannan hulɗar ita ce tushen kerawa. Mafarkin Beatrix Potter ya kasance da rai, sabili da haka haruffan da ta ƙirƙira suna kama da gaske.
“Akwai wasu laya a cikin haihuwar kalmomin farko na littafi. Ba ka taba sanin inda za su kai ka ba. Nawa ne ya kawo ni nan."
4. "Julie & Julia: Dafa Farin Ciki tare da Recipe" na Nora Ephron (2009)
starring: Meryl Streep, Amy Adams
Game da me? Game da daidaituwar ban dariya na makomar mata biyu - daga 50s na karni na ashirin da kuma namu na zamani - waɗanda aka ɗaure tare da sha'awar dafa abinci da neman aikinsu. Don haka, shahararren littafin girke-girke na Julia Child ya ƙarfafa ma'aikacin gidan waya Julie don fara shafin yanar gizon abinci kuma ya kai ta zuwa ga tauraro.
Me yasa kallo? Tabbatar cewa samun wani abu da kuke so wanda ke kawo muku farin ciki ba koyaushe yana nufin lalata rayuwar ku ta asali ba kuma farawa tare da tsattsauran ra'ayi. Sannan kuma mu yi tunani a kan yadda muhimmancin fahimtar kanmu shi ne kasancewar mutumin da ke zaburar da mu. Kuma ba dole ba ne a kusa.
“Kin san dalilin da yasa nake son girki? Na ji daɗin cewa bayan ranar rashin tabbas, za ku iya komawa gida ku sani tabbas idan kun ƙara yolks a madara tare da cakulan, cakuda zai yi kauri. Yana da irin wannan kwanciyar hankali!
5. "Frida" ta Julie Taymore (2002)
starring: Salma Hayek, Alfred Molina
Game da me? Game da wani sanannen mai fasaha na Mexican wanda ke fama da rashin sa'a tun lokacin yaro: cutar shan inna, wani mummunan hatsari wanda ya haifar da ayyuka da yawa da kuma doguwar gado ... Frida ta juya ta wahala da farin ciki, zafin kadaici, ƙauna da kishi ga mijinta a cikin zane-zane.
Me yasa kallo? Taɓa mu'ujiza na haifuwar fasaha daga ainihin gaskiyar rayuwa. Koyi cewa kerawa ba kawai damar mai zane ya bayyana kansa ba, amma sau da yawa ya zama hanya don magance matsalolin ciki mai tsanani. Yana taimakawa wajen samun ƙarfin tunani.
"Shin kai ma mai fasaha ne, Mrs Rivera? "A'a, kawai ina kashe lokaci."
6. "PS: Ina son ku!" Richard LaGravenese (2007)
starring: Hilary Swank, Gerard Butler
Game da me? Gaskiyar cewa shawo kan asarar ƙaunataccen da kuma samun ƙarfin rayuwa a cikin cikakken ƙarfi - don jin dadi, yin tunani, gaskatawa - wannan kuma wani nau'i ne na labarin da aka yi da kansa. Kuma a wannan ma'anar, ba kome ba ne cewa wasiƙun mijinta da ya mutu sun taimaka wa Holly ta sami hanyarta. Babban abin shi ne ta ji shi.
Me yasa kallo? Holly ya gano sirrin mutane masu farin ciki da yawa: kawai yi abin da kuke so. Tabbas, wannan ba abu ne mai sauƙi ba: yana iya zama abin ban tsoro don amincewa da kuskuren zaɓin da kuka yi idan aikin bai dace da ku ba. Kuma ba kowa ne ke iya gane sha’awar sa ba. Amma, idan na kusa da mu sun san mu fiye da kanmu, me zai hana mu juya zuwa gare su?
"Aikina shine ƙirƙirar," kai da kanka ka gaya mani wannan. Don haka ka koma gida ka sami abin da zai bambanta ka da kowa.”