Ilimin halin dan Adam

An yi imanin cewa mata sun fi damuwa. Da gaske ne? Wannan ra'ayi game da jima'i masananmu, masana ilimin jima'i Alain Eril da Mireille Bonyerbal ne suka tattauna.

Alain Eril, masanin ilimin psychoanalyst, masanin ilimin jima'i:

Wataƙila wannan ra'ayi ya samo asali ne a cikin al'adunmu, amma kuma yana da dalilai na neurophysiological. Ana iya gani, alal misali, cewa numfashin iska, wanda fata ke ji, mata sun fi fahimtar da hankali fiye da maza. Daga wannan zamu iya yanke shawarar cewa masu karɓar fata sun fi damuwa a cikin mata.

Juyin halittar dan Adam na iya bayyana wannan siffa: mutumin ya ci gaba ta hanyar aiki na zahiri, lokacin da fatarsa ​​ta yi tauri kuma ta yi sanyi, wanda hakan na iya haifar da asarar hankali. Sau da yawa muna lura cewa maza ba sa son a taɓa su - ya zama cewa jima'i yana iyakance ga yankin al'aura.

Amma a lokacin da maza ba su ji tsoron nuna bangaren mata na yanayin su, sun gano da yawa ban sha'awa zones ban da al'aura. Sun gano abin da ke bayyane ga mata - cewa dukan jikinsu gaɓoɓin jiki ne kuma suna iya samun nasarar shiga cikin jima'i.

Mireille Bonierbal, likitan hauka, likitan jima'i:

A cikin rarraba yankuna masu lalata, abubuwan neuroanatomical suna taka muhimmiyar rawa, tun da a cikin maza da mata ana rarraba jini daban-daban a cikin jiki a lokacin tashin hankali. A cikin maza, saurin jini ya fi faruwa a cikin al'aura, yayin da a cikin mata jini yana gudu zuwa sassa daban-daban na jiki.

Yankunan batsa na namiji sun fi ta'allaka ne a cikin al'aurar al'aura, wani lokacin a cikin yankin kirji.

Yankunan batsa na namiji sun fi ta'allaka ne a cikin al'aurar al'aura, wani lokacin a cikin yankin kirji. Hakan na faruwa ne domin yaron yakan fuskanci abubuwan batsa kawai dangane da sashinsa na jima'i, tun da yana gani kuma ana iya taɓa shi.

Yarinyar ba ta ganin al'aurarta; idan ta taba su, yawanci ana zaginta da shi. Don haka, ba tare da sanin su ba, ta fi jin daɗin kallon da aka jefa a jikinta, ƙirji, gashi, gindi, kafafu. Jikinta duk jikinta ne, tun daga kafafunta har zuwa gashinta.

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