Neman a cikin karkatacciyar soyayya
Mutum a cikin karkatacciyar soyayya yana tsammanin abu mai yawa daga “abun bauta” kuma yana bukatar kaɗan daga kansa.
Neman soyayya ta gaskiya
Mutumin da yake ƙauna mai gaskiya yana fara buƙatu da kankakuma ba ga masoyi ba.
Ina da wajibai a kaina kawai. Yadda nake hali, yadda nake son ku, yadda nake yi muku wani abu… Shi ke nan. Ina da wajibai a kaina, amma ba buƙatu a kan ku ba.
Yaya masoyi ya kasance, tana yin duk abin da na ga ya zama wajibi a kaina in yi? Ba zan yi tunani game da shi ba, zan janye kaina daga kimantawa na wanda nake so. Shin ƙaunataccen zai nuna hali 100%, 80% ko 30% - Ba na kallonsa. Ayyukan ƙaunataccen shine kawai ya zama. Ya ishe ni sanin cewa kawai NE.
Na san cewa kuna sona daidai gwargwadon yadda za ku iya. Na sani, na ga kuna so, kuna nema. Sannan - tambayoyin lafiya, yanayi, yanayi, gajiya, da sauransu. Aikina shine in taimake ku. Amma ba zan iya tantance ku ba. Wannan ba daidai ba ne, kuma ba na yi wa kaina irin waɗannan tambayoyin ba.
Akwai kima guda ɗaya kawai da madaidaicin: ƙaunataccen kada ya ƙetare wani ƙananan iyaka.
Idan ƙaunataccena ya fara shaye-shaye, baƙar fata ko harshe mara kyau, to wannan ba shine kawai abin da na fi so ba. A ƙaunataccen yana da aiki ɗaya - don zama kanta, wanda na riga na sani kuma na ƙauna. Kada ku canza kanku, kar ku faɗi ƙasa da wani matakin. Wajibi ne. Amma shi ke nan. Duba →
Me soyayya ke tsiro daga me
Wace irin ƙauna - ya dogara ne akan abin da ke ƙarƙashinsa: ilimin lissafi ko ra'ayoyin zamantakewa, ji ko tunani, rai mai lafiya da wadata - ko kadaici da rashin lafiya ... Ƙaunar da aka zaɓa yawanci daidai ne kuma sau da yawa lafiya, ko da yake tare da karkatacciyar kai shi. mai yiwuwa ne kuma zabin shahidi.
Soyayyar gaskiya tana cikin kula da wanda ke raye, ba cikin kuka ga wanda ya bace da wanda ya bata ba. Mutumin da yake ƙauna mai gaskiya yana fara buƙatu a kan kansa, ba ga ƙaunataccensa ba.
Soyayya-Ina so yawanci girma daga sha'awar jima'i. Ƙaunar rashin lafiya kusan kullum tana girma daga haɗin kai na neurotic, ƙauna yana shan wahala, wani lokacin an rufe shi da tabawa na soyayya.
Kaunar kowannen mu nuni ne da mutuntakar mu, da kuma gama-garinmu ga mutane da rayuwa, ci gaban matsayinmu na hasashe ya fi kayyade nau'i da yanayin soyayyar mu. Duba →