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Iyaye na dijital suna iyo cikin farin ciki… ko kusan!
Iyaye sun shiga yanar gizo. Shafukan su, asusun Instagram, abubuwan ƙirƙira akan Pinterest da bidiyo akan Youtube suna ƙaruwa mara iyaka. Amma don mun zama uwa ba yana nufin duk ɗaya muke ba! A Intanet kamar sauran wurare, akwai salo daban-daban. A halin yanzu, manyan al'amuran biyu sun yi karo. A gefe ɗaya, "mamas masu farin ciki" waɗanda suke yin kansu da 'ya'yansu a cikin cikakkiyar sararin samaniya don sa ku kore tare da hassada. A daya bangaren kuma, uwayen da suka yi watsi da wannan kyakyawar siffar uwa da nuna, sau da yawa tare da barkwanci, ainihin abin da ke faruwa a rayuwarsu ta yau da kullun. Lokaci masu kyau da mara kyau…
Kasancewar uwa nirvana ne
Kuna tuna buga "Mai Farin Ciki" na Pharrell Williams? Da kyau, uzurinta na fara'a da kyakkyawan fata don farin ciki ya sami nasara akan uwaye da yawa waɗanda ke raba kowane lokaci na kyakkyawar mahaifarsu akan gidan yanar gizo. "Cikakkiyar Farin Ciki" "," mum mai farin ciki.com "," Yi farin ciki mum.com "," Happymumhappychild "," mai farin ciki "" iyali mai farin ciki "... Ba za mu iya zama mai haske ba! Waɗannan “mata masu farin ciki” (ba mu ce iyaye mata ba) suna bayyana kansu kuma suna wanzuwa kuma ta wurin ‘ya’yansu. Makullin farin cikin su shine kula da kawuna masu farin gashi (ko brunettes) tare da sha'awar, yayin da suke samun nasarar zama kyakkyawa, siriri, ƙwararrun ƙwararru, na samun tarin abokai masu ban mamaki. , miji mai ban tsoro da rayuwa mai cike da abubuwan sha'awa na sirri. Hotunan dangi suna da kyau, mai salo kuma an tsara su da kyau, kayan ado suna da kyau, kowa yana da kyan gani, a takaice, komai yana da kyau a cikin duniyar ban mamaki na mamas masu farin ciki. Ɗaya daga cikin mafi kyawun misalan wannan motsi na "mahaifiya mai kyau" shine Julia Restoin Roitfeld's blog, "Romy and the Bunnies", wanda ya gaya mana a cikin hotuna na rayuwar yau da kullum na yarinya da abokanta na fashionista. Wannan na Jess Dempsey, (www.whatwouldkarldo.com), wata guru mai salo, wacce ta gabatar da kanta a matsayin "mahaifiyar da ta amince da tunanin mahaifiyarta", ta dauki mataki tare da 'ya'yanta maza biyu, Aston, mai shekaru 4, da Will, watanni 4. tsoho, a cikin saitunan da suka cancanci manyan mujallu. Dangane da shafin Instagram na Sarah Stage, "https: //instagram.com/sarahstage", shahararriyar samfurin Amurka wacce ta haifar da tashin hankali ta hanyar fallasa ciwon tsokar da har yanzu tana da watanni 8 da rabi na ciki, tana da wadatar abinci. yi hassada ga duk uwayen da suka haihu kuma ba su, kamar ita ba, nan take suka sami babban layin samfurin…
Farin ciki da ƙarin farin ciki har zuwa jikewa
Asusun Instagram "Liliinthemoon" da "mamawatters" suna sa mu yi mafarki tare da kyawawan hotunan yara masu kyau a cikin kyawawan wurare da gidaje! Komai fari ne mara kyau, mai tsabta, chic, ƙira da kyan gani! Iyayen da suka san yadda ake yin komai zuwa kamala suma suna haskakawa ta hanyar koyarwa. Idan ƴar ƙaramar ku tana son sarƙaƙƙiya, to, ku duba shafin yanar gizon “Cute Girls Hairstyles”, wanda Mindy McKnight, wata uwa Ba’amurke ce ke jagorantar wata ƙabila mai ‘ya’ya shida. Ta lissafta duk yuwuwar da za a iya tunanin braids, kunnuwa Minnie, bakuna, rawani, zukata, kunnuwa cat, abubuwan haɓaka… Fiye da masu biyan kuɗi miliyan 1,6 suna bin koyarwarta waɗanda ke nuna tagwayen Brooklyn da Bailey. A matsayin kari, akwai ko da wani sashe sadaukar da dads. Idan kun fi shiga cikin kicin, za ku zama mai sha'awar asusun Instagram na Samantha Lee, wanda ta kira "Duniya ta wauta ce". Takan dafa jita-jita da ke ba da labari, halayenta kayan lambu ne, 'ya'yan itatuwa, kifi, da sauransu, a takaice, abin al'ajabi mai kyau… Za a iya samun yanayin "Farin ciki a kowane farashi" akan vlogs. "Shaytards", Shay Carl, matarsa da 'ya'yansu biyar sun zama ɗaya daga cikin shahararrun iyalai akan YouTube. Waɗannan vloggers masu sha'awar sun yi fim ɗin haihuwar 'ya'yansu biyu da yanayin danginsu, duk yana da kyau! A cikin bidiyon su, kowa yana ƙauna da rungumar juna, kowane lokaci na rayuwarsu yana cike da jin daɗi, kuma ƙauna tana magance duk matsaloli! Sauran tauraron Youtubers, da "SacconeJolys". Anna da Jofee kyawawan iyayen jarirai biyu ne, Eduardo da Emilia, kuma bidiyonsu ya nuna mana yadda suke renon kyawawan ’ya’yansu a hanya mai ban sha’awa. Don haka kyakkyawa!
Masu rubutun ra'ayin yanar gizo, vloggers, instagramers za ku ji labarinsu!
Cika da cikakkiyar uwaye
Ba kamar 'yan mata masu farin ciki na Amurka waɗanda ke shelar kansu a matsayin zakara na cikakken farin ciki ba, masu rubutun ra'ayin yanar gizo na Faransanci, Instagrammers da iyayen Youtubers suma suna neman farin ciki, amma ta wata hanya dabam, mafi ƙasƙanci, rashin kunya. Wannan yanayin ba sabon abu bane. Muna tunawa da "mummunan uwaye" da sauran "mata masu ban tsoro" na 2010s waɗanda suka raba yanayin su a cikin shafukan yanar gizo tare da sunaye masu bayyana: "Mèrepasparfaiteetalors.fr", "la-parfait-bad-mère" "Mèrepasparfaite" "," Mèreindigne.com "," latrèsmauvaisemère ". Wadannan mugayen uwaye da alfahari da shi sun yi tawaye ga siffar mace ta zama dole ta cika, sun yi iƙirarin cewa wasu kwanaki ba za mu ci nasara ba, suna magana akan komawa aiki a matsayin rana mai albarka, suna jayayya cewa ciki ba kome ba ne, kuma sun ƙi sadaukar da kome don kome. 'ya'yansu. Da yake sun zama ƙasa da wuce gona da iri a yau, "masu farin ciki amma duk da haka iyayensu na gaske" a kai a kai suna ɗaukar hotuna kai tsaye na abin da suke rabawa tare da 'ya'yansu, ba tare da ƙoƙarin ƙawata ko ta yaya ba. Wannan haƙiƙa yana ba su damar buɗe idanunsu ga ɗan ƙaramin jin daɗin yau da kullun na yau da kullun, motsin rai mai wucewa, ƙananan abubuwan da ke ba da jin daɗi da kuma sanya rana a cikin kwanakin aiki / yara / barci. Masu sha'awar DIY (Yi Kanku) suna ba da karimci suna raba sanin yadda suke, tunaninsu na kwakwa da kirkire-kirkirensu akan Pinterest da dinki, saƙa, saƙa, zane-zane da ƙananan bulogi na ado. "Prune et Violette", "Mercotte", "Une poule à petit pas", alal misali, abin burgewa ne.
Nasihu don sauƙaƙe "hakikanin" rayuwar yau da kullun
Céline ce ta ƙirƙira a cikin Oktoba 2008 a kan isowar ɗanta na biyu, shafin "Augustin et Augustine" ya zama kan lokaci "bulogin carpe diem" "rayuwa". A cikin shafinta mai ban sha'awa, "Mes doudoux et compagnie", Anabel ta yi magana game da rayuwar danginta kuma ta ba da labari game da gefen dadi da kuma yanayin rayuwar uwa. Hotunan "Marjoliemaman", "Merci pour le chocolat", "Natachabirds", "rockand mum", "Belle mam" ya nuna a cikin sauƙi da kyawawan abubuwa na yau da kullum, cewa ba dole ba ne mu lura, kuma duk da haka su ne yaji na rayuwa. Shafin Sandrine na “Miamm mum cooks” tana ba da shawarwarinta a matsayinta na uwa ga babban dangi, tana aiki cikakken lokaci. Girke-girkenta suna da sauƙi, sauri da daɗi don sauƙaƙa rayuwa ga duk sauran uwaye masu aiki. Julie, wanda aka fi sani da Hysterikmum ita ce mahaifiyar Dictator (shekaru 5) da Empress (shekara 1) kuma abokin Machoman. A cikin shafinta na sada zumunta na “hysterikfamily.com”, ta yi magana game da fitattun ƙabilanta kuma tana ba ta shawarwari don inganta rayuwarta ta yau da kullun.
Masu zabar izgili
Manufar su ita ce, za ku iya zama duka uwa mai cikawa kuma a kan gab da rugujewar juyayi, wasu lokutan yanke ƙauna da farin ciki. Mawallafin mu Jessica Cymerman, wanda aka fi sani da "Serial mother" na ɗaya daga cikin taurarin wannan motsi na ban dariya. Tana raba murkushewarta, bacin rai, bugun jini, harbi, kunar rana, shanyewar jiki (!), Harbin kai, nudges da soyayya a farkon gani. Rubuce-rubucensa na ban dariya har ma sun zama littattafan da aka fi sayar da su. The Wonder Mum Serena Giuliano Laktaf, wacce ta bayyana shafinta na "wondermumenaraslacape.com" a matsayin shafin yanar gizon uwa mara kyau, wacce ke da cikakkun 'ya'ya biyu… ko kusan, ta faɗi da ban dariya da ban dariya kuma a cikin kwatanci masu ban dariya, bugun 400 na Driss da Aares. YouTuber Angélique Grimberg, mahaifiyar Hugo, mai shekaru 4, ta zama Angie, Marquise des Langes. Kuna iya samun kowace ranar Laraba akan tashar mu ta Parents.fr ɗaya daga cikin kunci da ban dariya na e-yanke na rayuwa. Don jin daɗinmu mafi girma, Marquise des Langes ta jawo hankalinta daga kalaman danta, mai haɗin gwiwa akai-akai, da kuma daga rayuwarta ta yau da kullum a matsayin mai ba da shawara na aure da iyali a asibitin Lyon. Game da Héloise, ta ƙirƙiri blog ɗin “Rayuwar uwa ce”. Hotunanta sun kwatanta da ɗan ban dariya na rayuwarta ta yau da kullun a matsayin uwa da aka yi gudun hijira a Ingila tare da Mat, mijinta, Ezra da William, ’ya’yanta biyu. Idan muka hau sama a cikin bacin rai, za mu sami ƙarin halayen halayen da ke ɗaukar daidaitaccen motsi na "Mamas Happy". A yau, anti “maman farin ciki” sun ƙirƙiri Tumblr “mahaifiya zan so a kashe” (MILK). Tarin ne wanda a hankali yake ba'a duk posts na matsananci-uwa, uwaye "a gefen alamar" waɗanda suke mafarkin shayar da ɗansu nono har sai sun cika shekaru 8, kuma suna gaya wa abokansu na Facebook duk abin da ke sa su "boutchou" mai ban mamaki: haƙoransa na uku. na ranar, wahalarsa wajen yin rototo, regurgitation akan sabuwar rigar inna, abubuwan da ya faru na maƙarƙashiya ko gudawa (tare da bayanin launi, daidaito da kamshi…). Hakanan akwai hotuna masu ban tsoro na ɗan shekara ɗaya yana shan taba sigari ko wani wanda aka yi shi kamar clone na mahaukaciyar mahaifiyarsa. Wani gano: asusun Instagram "Mata a Rayuwa ta Gaskiya". Muna ganin hotunan biredi na ranar haihuwa, yara masu kuka, rugujewar dakuna, zubar dusar ƙanƙara, hancin hanci… Rayuwa ta ainihi, menene!