Sha'awar samun ɗa: shaida mai raɗaɗi na mata masu buƙatar jariri

"Bayan samun an sami raguwar amfrayo shekaru 3 da suka wuce, Na yi matukar sha'awar samun wani ɗan ƙaramin yanki. Ko yarinya ce ko namiji, ba ruwana da ni. Muddin ina da wannan jaririn da nake so fiye da komai. Na sake tunani game da shi kuma duk da cewa na yi farin ciki da tagwayena, ina bukatan daya don gyara asarar sauran bangarorin biyu don shiga cikin mala'iku. A bangaren iyali, babu wanda ya sani, a gare su, ba dole ba ne in sami wannan sha'awar. Amma ya fi karfina, har ma nakan jawo wa kaina jinkirin haila, in samu ciki wanda ya kumbura ina son yin amai alhalin nasan ba zai yiwu ba saboda ina da IUD. Ba na rasa bege cewa wata rana wani ɗan ƙaramin halitta zai kwana a cikina. ”

ina tsammani

Joelle Desjardins-Simon:Rage ciki yayi nisa daga zama aikin banza. Myle, kana da alama kana ɗaukar laifin da yawa, ba ka gaya wa ƙaunatattunka game da shi ba, ƙirƙira farkon ciki na tunanin, da fatan cewa wani sabon tunani ya zo don gyara lalatawar ƴaƴan ku biyu. Ta yaya za a sauƙaƙa wannan nauyin laifi don kar a ba da shi ga jaririn da ke cikin ku?

“Bayan zubewar ciki 8 a cikin shekaru 4, ciki har da tagwaye inda na yi hasarar tayi na biyu makonni biyu bayan na farko, an gano ciki a makare, don haka cire bututun da ya lalace. marhalolin hawaye masu kauri… Ee, sha'awar ta kasance a can. Ton na jarrabawa, lissafi, raguwa… A takaice, na isa wurin likitan mata da kuka, ina cewa: daina, na fasa, na daina duk jiyya, Na sake shan kwayar, Ban yarda da shi ba. Zubewar daya yi yawa da yawa! Don haka sake dawo da kwaya na yau da kullun, ba tare da mantawa ba, a ƙayyadaddun lokaci, ya kasance a cikin Fabrairu 2011. Babu wasu jiyya, kawai magnesium don hawa kan gangara. Yuni 2011, gwajin ciki da na bar (yawan yawa da aka saya) a cikin kantin magani na, a matsayin abin kunya don jefar da shi gaba ɗaya, na yi. Na sake karanta "manual" sau 3, na ji daɗi sosai cewa yana da inganci! Bayan 'yan kwanaki, dating echo, 7 makonni ciki. Jimlar hutu. Fabrairu 2012 a lokacin, ƙananan zuciyata tana can 4,02 kg da 52 cm. ”

Sandrine

JDS: tafiye-tafiyenku suna nuna yadda rayuwa ke tafiya ba tare da saninmu ba kuma har zuwa wace hanya ce, a cikin lamuran rashin haihuwa, babu abin da ba zai iya jurewa ba…

"Na tsawon shekaru 5, muna son ɗan guntun kanmu… amma a'a! Wannan ya kasance wuya a ga abokai, iyali, duk sun zama iyaye a wurin aiki, yana da sauƙi ga wasu! Akwai hawaye da yawa da aka riƙe ko ɓoye, na yarda… Sannan kuma 2 inseminations daga baya, an haifi ƙaramin ɗanmu, kusan watanni 7 da suka wuce. Kar a taba rasa bege ! »

Charline

JDS: Rashin haihuwa, wanda ya riga ya yi zafi, wani lokaci yana tayar da kishi mai tsanani da rashin iya magana wanda ya kara yawan wahala.

"Lokacin da sha'awar ta zama buƙata, lokacin da wannan kasancewar da ake so ya daɗe da kuma lokacin da ya zama rashi…. Ina tsammanin kalmar sha'awa an zaba mugu! Lokacin da za ku binne duk fatan ku, ina tsammaninza mu iya magana game da makoki! »

blueberry

JDS: Kada ku kadaita tare da yanke kauna… Kewaye kanku tare da ƙaunatattunku, matar ku don kada ku fuskanci wannan ita kaɗai.

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