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Hotunan jariri, shekaru da shekaru
Yayin da yaronku ke girma, bugun fensir ɗin sa yana tasowa! Haka ne, gwargwadon haɓakar hankalinsa, yawan zane-zanensa yana ɗaukar ma'ana kuma yana bayyana motsin zuciyarsa. Roseline Davido, kwararriya a fagen, ta zayyana muku matakai daban-daban na zane a cikin jarirai…
Zana Jaririn
Zane na Baby: duk yana farawa da… tabo!
Zane kafin shekara yana yiwuwa! A cewar Roseline Davido, kwararre a fannin ilimin halayyar dan adam kuma kwararriyar a zanen yara, “ maganganun yara na farko shine tabo da suke yi lokacin da suka kama fenti, man goge baki ko kuma kayan lambu “. Koyaya, sau da yawa, iyaye ba sa barin ɗansu ya sami irin wannan gogewar… saboda tsoron sakamakon!
Rubutun Baby na farko
Kusan watanni 12, jaririn ya fara yin doodle. A wannan mataki, Baby yana son zana layi a kowane bangare, ba tare da ɗaga fensinsa ba. Kuma waɗannan ƙirar da ake ganin ba su da ma'ana sun riga sun bayyana sosai. Kuma da dalili mai kyau, “idan ya yi rubutu, yaron ya kan yi hasashen kansa. A gaskiya ma, yana ba da "ni", fensir ya zama tsayin daka kai tsaye na hannun. Alal misali, yara masu farin ciki da suke da rai za su zana ko'ina cikin takardar, ba kamar yaron da ba shi da kwanciyar hankali ko rashin lafiya. Duk da haka, ka tuna cewa a wannan shekarun, yaron bai riga ya riƙe fensinsa daidai ba. Saboda haka "ni" da aka kawo har yanzu yana "ruɗe".
Matakin doodle
A kusan shekaru 2, yaron ya shiga wani sabon mataki: lokacin doodling. Wannan babban mataki ne tunda yanzu zanen yaranku ya zama na niyya. Yaronku, wanda ke ƙoƙarin riƙe fensir ɗinsa da kyau, yana ƙoƙarin yin koyi da rubutun babban mutum. Amma hankalin yara yana watse da sauri. Za su iya samun ra'ayi ta hanyar fara zane da canza shi a hanya. Wani lokaci yaron ma yana samun ma'ana a zanensa a ƙarshensa. Zai iya zama kamanni ko ra'ayinsa na yanzu. Kuma idan ƙananan ku ba sa son kammala zanen su, ba haka ba ne, kawai suna son yin wani abu dabam. A wannan shekarun, yana da wuya a daɗe a mai da hankali kan abu ɗaya.
Tadpole
Kusan shekaru 3, zanen yaranku yana ɗaukar ƙarin siffa. Wannan shine sanannen lokacin tadpole. "Lokacin da ya zana mutum," (wakiltar da'irar da ke aiki a matsayin kai da gangar jikin, wanda aka sanya da sanduna don alamar hannaye da ƙafafu), "ƙaramin yana wakiltar kansa", in ji Roseline Davido. Yayin da yake girma, yawancin mutumin nasa yana da cikakken bayani: gangar jikin yana bayyana a cikin nau'i na biyu na da'irar, kuma a kusa da shekaru 6 jikin yana bayyana..
Kwararren ya ƙayyade cewa mutumin tadpole yana ba ku damar lura da yadda aka tsara yaron. Amma zai isa can ne kawai idan ya fahimci tsarin jikinsa, wato "hoton da yake da shi na jikinsa da matsayinsa a sararin samaniya". Lalle ne, a cewar masanin ilimin psychoanalyst Lacan, hoton farko da yaron yake da shi ya rabu. Kuma wannan hoton zai iya dawwama a cikin yara da aka zalunta. A cikin wannan yanayin daidai " yara, har ma da shekaru 4-5, kawai rubutun, suna musun jikinsu. Wata hanya ce ta cewa ba kowa ba ne,” in ji Roseline Davido.