Domin samun nasara a zuciyar abokin tarayya na kowane jinsi, kuna buƙatar yin dariya game da barkwancinsa.
Wannan binciken ya fito ne daga masu bincike daga Jami'ar Kimiyya da Fasaha ta Norwegian, wanda labarinsu a cikin mujallar Evolutionary Psychology.
Yin kwarkwasa wani kayan aiki ne mai mahimmanci don kafa haɗin kai tare da yuwuwar soyayya ko abokin jima'i. Dabarun da mutane ke amfani da su lokacin kwarkwasa na iya zama duka biyu na magana (kamar yabo) da kuma mara-baki (harshen jiki).
Masanan sun yanke shawarar kwatanta dabarun da mutane masu jinsi dabam-dabam suke amfani da su wajen kwarkwasa. Kusan daliban jami'a dubu daga kasashen Norway da Amurka ne suka shiga wannan binciken.
An tambayi mahalarta don amsa jerin tambayoyi game da dabarun kwarkwasa da suka fi so a yanayi daban-daban.
Masu binciken sun tsara nau'ikan tambayoyin musamman guda huɗu: macen da ke yin kwarkwasa da namiji don ɗan gajeren lokaci ko kuma na dogon lokaci, haka kuma, namiji yana yin kwarkwasa da mace tare da tsammanin yin jima'i na lokaci ɗaya ko kuma dogon lokaci. dangantaka na lokaci. Kowane ɗayan mahalarta, dangane da jinsi, sun karɓi ɗaya daga cikin nau'ikan tambayoyin.
A ƙarshe, ya zama cewa maza da mata suna amfani da dabarun kwarkwasa iri ɗaya, amma, dangane da manufar, wasu dabarun suna aiki mafi kyau wasu kuma mafi muni. Don haka, nunin samun jima'i (tufafi masu dacewa, suna nuna sassan jiki a bude) bisa ga dangantaka na gajeren lokaci yana da tasiri kawai idan mata suna yin haka, ba maza ba. A lokaci guda kuma, matan da suke neman jima'i guda ɗaya kawai tare da sababbin sababbin kada suyi tsammanin cewa halayen abokantaka zasu taimake su su kusanci wannan burin - runguma, sumba a kunci, jin dadi.
A lokaci guda, ga maza, jin dadi, da kuma nuna nuna karimci da mahimmancin manufar su, suna taimakawa wajen kafa dangantaka mai tsawo tare da mace.
Koyaya, kamar yadda masu binciken suka gano, akwai dabarar wasan kwarkwasa ta duniya wacce take da tasiri daidai ga duka jinsi a kowane yanayi. Idan kun yi dariya da dariya game da barkwancin abokin tarayya, kuna da kyakkyawar dama ta ɗan gajeren lokaci da kuma dogon lokaci tare da shi.