Ilimin halin dan Adam

“Ma’aikaciyar ilimin halin dan Adam ta Danish ta zana cikakken hoto na mutumin da ta kira mai hankali sosai,” in ji Elena Perova ƙwararriyar ɗan adam. "Yana da rauni, damuwa, mai tausayi da kuma sha'awar kai. Sand da kansa yana cikin wannan rukunin. Ana ɗaukar babban hankali sau da yawa a matsayin hasara, tun da irin waɗannan mutane suna da sauƙin gajiyar tunani. Koyaya, yana da fa'idodi masu kyau da yawa: tunani, ikon jin kyan gani da hankali, haɓakar ruhi, nauyi.

Domin waɗannan fa'idodin su bayyana, mutum mai hankali, maimakon damuwa game da ƙarancin juriya, bai kamata ya yi shakkar sanar da wasu game da halayensa ba. Bayyana cewa yana bukatar ya kasance shi kaɗai, ya bar hutu da wuri, kuma kada ya bayyana ko kaɗan, tambayi baƙi su koma gida a daidai tara. A cikin kalma, daidaita duniyar da ke kewaye da halayen ku kuma kuyi rayuwar ku. Tambaya ɗaya ita ce a ina kowane irin wannan mutum mai hankali (mafi rinjaye) zai iya samun cikakkiyar abokin rayuwa wanda zai dauki nauyin ayyuka masu ban sha'awa kamar siyan kayan aiki, raka yara zuwa darasi da tarurrukan iyaye-malamai.

Yashi ya nuna cikin fushi cewa mutane masu hankali a da ana kiransu marasa lafiya, amma ita kanta tana magana game da su da irin wannan fargaba, kamar ta ba da shawarar a bi da su haka. Tunanin littafin yana da sauƙi, amma ba ƙasa da daraja ba: mun bambanta, yawancin halayen mu na sirri ne kuma za a iya canza su kawai. Ba shi da amfani ga wasunmu mu yi ƙoƙarin mayar da kanmu jarumtaka mai kuzari wanda ya rubuta jerin ayyuka ɗari da safe kuma ya cika ta lokacin cin abinci. Ilse Sand tana taimaka wa irin waɗannan mutane su karɓi kansu kuma suna gaya musu yadda za su kula da kansu.”

Fassara daga Danish na Anastasia Naumova, Nikolai Fitisov. Alpina Publisher, 158 p.

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