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Wannan wani bangare ne na gaskiya kawai, a cewar masananmu, masana ilimin jima'i Alain Eril da Mireille Bonyerbal, suna tattaunawa da wani ra'ayi na gama gari game da jima'i. Yana faruwa cewa mata sun rasa sha'awar jima'i tare da shekaru, yayin da maza ba sa.
Alain Eril, masanin ilimin psychoanalyst, masanin ilimin jima'i:
Na dogon lokaci, ayyukan jima'i na tsofaffi suna ɗaukar wani abu mara kyau. Saboda haka, mazan da suka kai shekaru 65-70 sun ji rashin tausayi. Tabbas, yayin da shekaru, lokacin da mutum ke ɗauka don samun karfin jini yana iya karuwa saboda raguwar sautin urogenital. Amma a gaba ɗaya, halin da ake ciki a wannan fanni yana canzawa.
Wasu daga cikin majiyyata na sun sami inzali na farko bayan 60, kamar dai dole ne su jira har sai lokacin al'ada kuma sun rasa ikon zama uwa don ba da damar kansu wani abu mara kyau kamar inzali…
Mireille Bonierbal, likitan hauka, likitan jima'i:
Bayan shekaru 50, maza na iya fama da cututtuka na zuciya da jijiyoyin jini wanda ke lalata karfin karfin su. Amma na yi imani da cewa asarar sha’awar maza a jima’i ta samo asali ne saboda gajiyar dangantaka tsakanin ma’aurata; idan waɗannan mazan suna saduwa da mata da yawa fiye da su, suna da kyau.
Wasu matan sun rasa sha'awar yin soyayya tare da tsufa saboda sun daina godiya da ganin kansu a matsayin abin batsa.
Amma ga mata, za su iya samun rashin man shafawa, amma a yau wannan matsala ta kasance mai warwarewa. Wasu mata ’yan shekara 60 sun daina sha’awar yin soyayya domin sun daina daraja kuma suna ɗaukan kansu a matsayin abin batsa. Don haka matsalar a nan ba ta kasance a cikin ilimin halittar jiki ba, amma a cikin ilimin halin dan Adam.