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Manufar cin amanar kasa tana kewaye da tatsuniyoyi da dama. Wasu daga cikinsu suna da haɗari ga dangantaka. Misali, ra’ayin cewa kowa yana canzawa ba tare da togiya ba (wanda ke nufin “Ni ma zan iya”), ko kuma kalmar da aka saba cewa “juya hagu” tana ƙarfafa aure. Menene aka sani game da canji?
Me muka sani game da kafirci? Kowa yana tsoronsu, da yawa daga cikinmu mun ci karo da su, kuma ba wanda ya san yadda zai kare kansa daga gare su. Masana ilimin halayyar dan adam na Jami'ar Florida Frank Fincham da Ross May sun tunkari batun zina sosai tare da taƙaita bincike kan wannan batu. Ga abin da suka gano.
1. Ka'idar yiwuwa
A cikin shekara guda, kusan 2-4% na ma'aurata sun shiga dangantaka a gefe. A tsawon rayuwar ma'aurata, rashin imani yana faruwa a cikin kashi 20-25% na auratayya.
2. soyayyar ofis
85% na yaudara yana faruwa tare da abokan aiki ko a wurin aiki.
3. Lokacin rani karamar rayuwa ce
Kamar dabi'ar jima'i, zamba na iya fuskantar sauyin yanayi na yanayi. Musamman ma, suna girma a lokacin rani, saboda mutane suna tafiya sosai a lokacin rani, kuma kasancewa kadai daga abokin tarayya yana ba da dama ga abubuwan jin daɗi na sirri. "Abin da ke faruwa a wurin shakatawa ya tsaya a wurin shakatawa" wani uzuri ne na kowa.
4. Ci gaba yana shafar yawan zamba
Tsakanin 1991 da 2006, rashin imani ya karu sosai, musamman a tsakanin maza da suka haura shekaru 65. Masana ilimin halayyar dan adam sun bayyana hakan ta hanyar bayyanar da kasuwar magunguna don magance matsalar rashin karfin mazakuta.
5. Mata masu ha'inci sun fi kai ga saki
Mata sun fara canzawa sau da yawa fiye da shekaru 10-20 da suka wuce. A cikin nau'in shekaru har zuwa shekaru 45 a yau, yawan kafirci kusan iri ɗaya ne ga duka jinsi. Mata yawanci suna shiga cikin ɓacin rai a cikin dangantaka da masoyi, wanda ke haifar da saki fiye da jima'i na jima'i na mazan aure.
6. Apple daga itacen apple
Yaran da suka taso a cikin iyalan da ake yin zina sun ninka yawan masoya a aure fiye da manya.
7. Lokacin aiki
Sun fi yawa a cikin ma'aurata inda ɗaya abokin tarayya yana aiki kuma ɗayan ba ya aiki.
Gaskiyar Bonus: Laifi
Akwai wata hujja kuma - Scott Haltzman, farfesa a ilimin halin dan Adam a Jami'ar Brown kuma marubucin Asirin Mazajen Farin Ciki, ya tabbata cewa yawancin masu yaudara suna jin laifi da zurfin mafarki na fallasa.
“Mutane na iya yin ƙoƙari a cikin tunaninsu don a kawo su cikin ruwa mai tsafta. Alamun lipstick akan abin wuya, buɗaɗɗen imel akan kwamfutar iyali, ba ya ɗaukar lokaci mai tsawo don nemo alamu, in ji Scott Haltzman. Sau da yawa kukan neman taimako ne. Da yawa daga cikin maciya amana suna son a tozarta su domin su daina. Amma ba su san yadda za su yi ba."
Duba farashin
Tafiya ta jirgin kasa, bas ko jirgin sama? Kula da wuyan ku don kada ya yi zafi sosai na wasu kwanaki. Tare da irin wannan matashin kai, ko da dare a kan hanya ba zai zama da wahala ba, kuma mafi mahimmanci ga ta'aziyya zai sami damar yin barci.