Kasa sanin ainihin abin da farin ciki yake, za mu iya fara sanin lokacin farin ciki. Dangane da binciken Ingilishi wanda ke kwatanta jin daɗin farin ciki gwargwadon shekaru, za mu kasance masu farin ciki da shekaru 33. Babban adadi na ci gaban mu, 33 zai zama shekarun farin ciki? Rufewa.

Dangane da binciken Ingilishi da binciken da gidan yanar gizon Abokan Haɗin gwiwa ya gudanar tsakanin mutane sama da 40, mun sami damar gano shekarun lokacin, galibi, mutane sun ce sun fi kowa farin ciki.

Sakamakon yana da gamsarwa: 70% daga cikinsu sun tabbatar da cewa ba su kai ga farin ciki na gaske ba har sai da suka kai shekaru 33. Daga cikin ragowar 30%, 16% sun ambaci ƙuruciya ko ƙuruciya a matsayin lokacin farin ciki, da 6% rayuwar ɗalibi.

Abin farin ciki, a cikin rayuwar sa ta balaga, rayuwar dangin sa, auren sa, ko kuma kawai cikin rayuwar da muka zaɓa a ƙarshe. Domin shekaru 33 shine farkon zaɓuɓɓuka na ainihi: waɗanda sau da yawa muke ƙin su a cikin shekarunmu ashirin, saboda ba mu manyanta ba ko tabbatar da kanmu. A ƙarshe mun fita daga rashin laifi, butulci, amma muna da isasshen isa don ganin duk yuwuwar mu, gwanintar mu, mafarkin mu don cimmawa da samun dama. Dukansu masu zaman kansu da masu cin gashin kansu, mun sami damar, a 33, don yin zaɓin da zai faranta mana rai.

Idan mun zaɓi mu haifi yara, har yanzu suna ƙanana ƙwarai, kuma kallon su girma yana sa mu farin ciki. Iyaye, har yanzu ba su dogara da mu ba saboda tsufa, bari mu tsaya da ƙafafunmu. Idan kai kaɗai ne, kuna jin daɗin rayuwar ku ta tafiya, fita, samun rayuwa mai gamsarwa da abokai da yawa, masu haifar da farin ciki.

Don bayyana wannan babban martani daidai da shekaru 33, masu amsa sun amsa:

• 53% cewa sun fi jin daɗi a wannan shekarun;
• 42% cewa sun kasance masu kyakkyawan fata game da makoma;
• 38% cewa ba su da damuwa;
• 36% cewa sun yi farin cikin samun haihuwa;
• 31% cewa suna farin cikin samun iyali tare;
• 21% sun ba da rahoton nasarar ƙwararru a wannan lokacin a rayuwarsu.

IAn tambayi Abokan da Aka Haɗu da su, Donna Dawson, masanin halayyar ɗan adam, tana ba da bayani game da wannan "Golden Age", yayi la'akari da sabbin shekaru 20 :

"Shekaru na 33 lokaci ne mai isasshen lokaci don girgiza butulci na ƙuruciya da muguntar ƙuruciya, ba tare da rasa kuzari da himmar ƙuruciya ba. A wannan shekarun, rashin laifi ya ɓace, amma haƙiƙanin tunaninmu ya haɗu da ƙarfin bege, ruhun “ƙalubale”, da ingantaccen imani akan iyawarmu da iyawarmu. Har yanzu ba mu bunƙasa cynicism da gajiyar da ke zuwa tare da shekaru masu zuwa ba. ”

Wannan shekarun kuma alama ce ta alama: lamba mai alfarma ga Pythagoras, ita ma shekarun Kristi ne a lokacin mutuwarsa da adadin mu'ujjizansa, adadin kasusuwan da ke cikin jikin ɗan adam da mafi girman darajar franc. masonry.

Duk da haka, wasu binciken sun nuna wasu manyan ɗaukaka na farin ciki da ƙima a rayuwar ɗan adam. Don haka idan kun wuce shekaru 33 kuma ba ku isa nirvana ba, kada ku firgita.

Dangane da binciken da sabis ɗin imel na Hotmail (Microsoft) ya yi, an ɗauki shekarun 55 da kyau. Tabbas, wannan shine zamanin da muke numfashi. Yaran sun girma, kuna ƙarshen aikin ku, kuna ɗan rage lokacin aiki amma da yawa kuna kula da kanku kowace rana. Kuna tafiya da yawa kuma kuna jin daɗin rayuwa! Labari mai dadi na shekara hamsin kafin a kai ga yin ritaya.

Ga mutanen da suma suka haura shekaru 55, duk bai ƙare ba: sauran karatun sun nuna wani lokacin zinare, har ma ya fi haka! Wani binciken da aka saukar a cikin 2010 ya riga ya yi magana game da shekarun da ake cika sharuɗɗan farin ciki: yana ƙidaya akan tsofaffi… Tsakanin 70 zuwa 80 shekaru!

Za mu kira wannan '' rashin daidaiton zaman lafiya '', tun daga shekaru 65, muna fuskantar ƙalubalen jiki da na tunani, tun da jiki yana ƙasƙantar da kai. Koyaya, shekaru kuma yana kawo hikima ga rayuwa, ingantaccen ilimin al'umma da motsin zuciyar ta.

Akwai haka, kuma abin farin ciki, lokuta daban -daban a rayuwa don samun nasarar samun cikakkiyar farin ciki.