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Me ke hana sha'awar jima'i?
Canjin hormone na iya rinjayar sha'awa, amma ya fi dacewa da ilimi, imani, hani, sanin jikin mutum, tsoron zubar da ciki ko haihuwa da wuri. na ayyukan jima'i. Idan sha'awar yaro ne, da zarar ciki, yana iya raguwa.
Shin raguwar sha'awar lokacin daukar ciki yana cikin tsari?
A'a, sau da yawa bincike ya nuna raguwa a cikin 1st da 3rd trimester, da karuwar sha'awar a cikin uku na biyu na ciki, amma wasu matan na iya samun ƙarancin sha'awar ko, akasin haka, ƙari.
Me yasa libido ke canzawa yayin daukar ciki?
1st trimester, raguwar sau da yawa yakan faru ne saboda munanan ciki (ciwon ciki, amai, gajiya, bacin rai…), amma kuma ga tsoron zubar da ciki. A cikin uku na biyu, rashin jin daɗi na jiki yana ɓacewa. Véronique Simonnot ya jadada cewa vulva ya fi mai yawa saboda samun isasshen jini kuma mace ta sami jin daɗi. Kuma a cikin 2rd trimester, babban ciki zai iya tsoma baki tare da soyayya. Har ila yau, akwai tsoron cutar da jariri, haifar da nakuda, da kuma jin "kallon" yaron da ba a haifa ba.
Har yaushe wannan digon zai iya wucewa?
Idan fahimtar jima'i yana da kyau kafin daukar ciki, sha'awar zai iya dawowa da sauri. Hakanan ya dogara da abokin tarayya. Wasu maza sun kamu da cutar madonna. Suna ƙara fahimtar abokin zamansu a matsayin mahaifiyar ɗansu na gaba kuma ƙasa da masoyi.
Ta yaya za mu rayar da libido?
Kwararren ya ba da shawarar ɗaukar lokaci don sake lalata kanku, kamar yadda a farkon. Hakanan yana nufin kula da kanku don lalata kanku, yin kwanan kwanan wata, zama mai taushi, shafa kanku… Kuna iya kiyaye “tazarar rayuwa” don kiyaye harshen wuta, ku rasa junanku ba tare da yin nisa ba. Muna bambanta direbobin wannan sha'awar: sha'awar sauke abubuwan sha'awarmu, don jin daɗi…