Don mafi kyau ko mafi muni, ba mu taɓa ganin duniya da kanta ba - an ba mu mu fahimci waɗannan hotuna ne kawai game da duniyar da muke samar da kanmu ko wasu a kusa da mu. Bayan kowane hoto, a bayan kowane hoto akwai wani fanni na ilimin fassara, wasu tatsuniyoyi na gaba ɗaya game da wannan yanki na duniya: wani dare yana zaune akan reshe. Ga Jafananci, wannan mawaƙi ne na ƙauna, ga Sinawa - karin kumallo da ba a kama ba tukuna, ga masanin ilimin halittu - halitta mai rai wanda ke buƙatar kariyarsa.
Filin azanci da kansa na iya gane shi ta hanyar mu a takaice ko gabaɗaya, mafi nesa ko kusa, ware ko tare da haɗawa da sirri tare da canza launi daban-daban… Sannan hoton duniya ya zama mai haske, mai haske - ko bakin ciki, dimmer; launi - ko baki da fari; cike da sarari ko kuma rufaffiyar… A sakamakon haka, duniya ta zama mai rai - ko matattu, matasa - ko gajiya, cike da kyaututtukan sihiri - ko tarko da mugayen dodanni.
Hakazalika, mutum a cikin hotonsa na ciki ko ta yaya (kuma ya bambanta) yana ganin kansa - da sauran mutane: Ni karami ne - suna da girma, ina da wayo - wawaye ne, duk maza ƙazanta ne aladu, yara kuma wahala ne da horo.
Don haka, idan muna rayuwa a cikin wani nau'in fage na ma'ana kuma muka fahimci duniya ta hanyar wani hoto na azanci, to a fili yake cewa mai yiwuwa ne a iya sarrafa dalilai da dabi'u da jin dadin mutane ta hanyar yin tasiri a wannan fanni na nazarce-nazarce da kuma hotonsa na duniya. Akwai fasaha mara iyaka don wannan, a nan za mu ambaci wasu kawai, sau da yawa kuma mafi nasara fiye da wasu, amfani da sadarwa ta hanyar mutane masu tasiri.
Shaidar Hankali
Wadancan bangarorin yanayin da kuke son sanyawa (don kanku ko wasu) masu motsa rai, kuyi tunanin a sarari: abin da ake iya gani a bayyane, ji, ji da zahiri: a fili, musamman, daki-daki.
Aƙalla, yi amfani da ƙarin hotuna da misalai a cikin jawabinku: Rubutun - misali.
Don yin wannan al'adar ku, ɗauki wasu algorithm waɗanda ke da amfani a gare ku - alal misali, ingantaccen dawowar oda, kuma yi aiki da shi cikin yanayin madaidaicin bayyane. Misali:
- Jawo hankali ga kanku. Yana da azanci a bayyane: don mutum ya kasance a gabanka, idanu ba sa gudu ko ba sa nan, amma a fili, mai hankali, cikakken ganinka ...
- Nuna iko idan ya cancanta, nuna cewa kai ne shugaba a nan. Jikin jiki. Bari ya tsaya yayin da kuke tunani, to: “Don haka… ɗauki takarda, zauna — nan, rubuta aikin!”
- Bayyana matsalar. Hotuna masu gamsarwa da maganganu masu hankali: don haka ba zai yiwu a ji shi ba.
- Saita aiki, nuna lokaci da ma'auni. A bayyane kuma a fili: zana sakamakon ƙarshe wanda ya kamata ya kasance a cikin sakamakon.
- Kasance takamaimai cikin matakai. Kawai kuma dalla-dalla: “Tafi… yarda… tafi… yi shawarwari, saboda haka yakamata a fada muku wannan da wancan, yakamata ku sami wannan da wancan a hannunku”
- Dakatar da zaɓuɓɓukan da ba'a so. Mafi kyau ta hanyar adawa mai tsabta: "Wannan zai yi daidai, amma wannan ba"
- Ajiye alewa. Da gaske kuma da kaina: "Ina fata a gare ku, wannan yana da matukar muhimmanci!"
- Sarrafa fahimtar: Ba komai “Ya samu? "An Fahimce!", Musamman: "Maimaita abin da za ku buƙaci yi da abin da sakamakon ya kamata!"
- Sarrafa sakamakon: A bayyane, musamman, daki-daki: “Da zaran kun yi, ina jiran ku a nan: bayar da rahoto kan sakamakon. Idan akwai wata wahala, kira kuma.
- Ka ba shi tafi. A sarari kuma a raye: “Ku yi tunani game da shi, kuna da ƙarin tambayoyi? A'a. Abin da za a yi - ka sani. Ee? Ee. Sai aci gaba!"