Ciki a 20, 30 ko 40: babu kyakkyawan shekarun zama iyaye
A wurin muhawara na biyar na Iyaye kan jigon “Cikin ciki a 20, 30 ko 40: shin akwai kyakkyawan shekarun zama iyaye? Mun tambayi uwaye a dandalinmu idan suna tunanin akwai kyakkyawan shekarun haihuwa. Amsar su: a'a!
"A 20, yana da matashi sosai, yana da shekaru 30, ba lokaci ba ne saboda kuna farawa a cikin sana'a, a 40, ya yi latti ... muna jin shi, lokacin da muke so. Don haka, ga wasu ƙanana ne (ni, tun ina ɗan shekara 15, ina son yara, kuma na san cewa ina son su da wuri), wasu kuma daga baya ne. Ba komai bane! Abin da kawai ke damun mu shine agogon nazarin halittu saboda wani lokaci, ta hanyar jira, ya yi latti. ” Ruwa 511
"Da na so in zama uwa a shekara 24 amma lamarin bai bari ba. Monsieur bai shirya ba. Da kaina, ina tsammanin babu kyakkyawan shekaru. Ya danganta da tarihin kowane da kuma hormones da ke titillate. Kuma idan za mu iya samun yara masu lafiya daga baya, da yawa mafi kyau! Muna rayuwa tsawon rai, muna dadewa cikin sura ma. ” Kitty 2012
“Bana jin akwai shekarun zama uwa. Ban yi imani da “kasancewa a shirye” ba. Yaya za ku kasance game da kasancewa a shirye don sanin ciki da yaro? Muna so, amma ba za mu iya zama “shirye” ba saboda ba mu san a gaba yadda komai zai kasance ba. Na yi sa'a don in iya lura da "mafi girma" guda biyu: mahaifiyata tana da ƙanena a 38 kuma ƙanwata ta haifi 'yarta ta farko a 15 (ta 20 a yanzu kuma tana tsammanin ɗa na biyu a watan Satumba). Daya dole ne ya "karami" ɗayan kuma "ya girma". 'Yar'uwata ta taurare, mahaifiyata ta yi laushi… Ina sha'awar su duka (...). Kuma bayan duk, shekaru ne kawai lamba! Bamu damu ba. ” Gigitte 13
Shiga cikin muhawarar Iyaye na biyar! A ranar Talata 3 ga Mayu, a Paris, bugu na biyar na " Mahawara iyaye "Tare da jigon:" Ciki a 20, 30 ko 40: shin akwai kyakkyawan shekarun zama iyaye? “. Don tattauna wannan batu tare da ku, mun gayyace: Catherine Bergeret-Amselek, psychoanalyst, da kuma Malami. Michel Tournaire, likitan obstetric-gynecologist kuma tsohon majibincin asibitin haihuwa na Saint-Vincent de Paul a birnin Paris. Astrid Veillon, jarumar baiwar Allah, tabbas za ta ce. Idan kuna son shiga wannan taron, yi rajista ta danna nan: www.debats-parents.fr/inscription |