Idan ni koci ne, ina bukatar in fahimci bambanci tsakanin masu sauraron maza da mata. Wannan bambance-bambancen ya wanzu, kuma dole ne a yi la'akari da shi don zaɓar mafi kyawun salon gudanar da horo - duka don isar da bayanai da haɓaka ƙwarewa.
A cewar na lura, babu wani musamman bambanci tsakanin maza da mata masu sauraro a "kasuwanci" horo. Koyaya, masu sauraro sun fi fahimtar da farko kocin namiji. Ana gwada kocin mace "don hakori". Kuma a wannan yanayin, kocin dole ne ya tabbatar da ikonsa kuma ya nuna cewa ya san da yawa kuma tana da abin da za ta koya wa masu sauraro. A horon kasuwanci, ni kaina na gane namiji mai horarwa da kwarin gwiwa.
A horo don horar da masu sa kai, inda masu sauraro dalibai ne, masu shekaru 20-25, muna ƙoƙari mu sanya maza a matsayin jagorar masu horarwa. Hankali yana da sauƙi: 'yan mata sun fada cikin ƙauna, suna sha'awar kuma suna saurare. Sai dai kuma a cikin masu horaswar akwai Mata da suke jagorantar horaswar ta yadda masu kallo su kayatar da al'ajabi. yaya? Ilimi, gwaninta, ikon gabatar da bayanai "mai daɗi". Siffar wadannan masu horarwa ba ta da kyau ko kadan. Suna saduwa da hikima.
Ya bayyana a fili cewa wannan batu yana da yawa, kana buƙatar ɗaukar wani yanke. Muna ɗaukar shekaru 18-27, masu sauraro masu himma, batun horon shine galibi kasuwanci.
A musamman na mata masu sauraro ya ta'allaka ne a cikin gaskiyar cewa irin wannan masu sauraro reacts sharply ga korau al'amurran da suka shafi na abu da kuma yau da kullum shirin, concretely tunanin tunani rinjaye a can, akwai wani babban motsin zuciyarmu na hasashe, masu sauraro sun fi son fahimtar bayanai da kunne, shi ne. yawanci halin rashin sha'awar tattalin arziki, kimiyya, fasaha da wasanni batutuwa, ya fi son halartar laccoci da jawabai daban-daban, ba shi da masaniya kan duk batutuwa.
Abubuwan bukatu don yin magana a cikin masu sauraron mata:
- kyawawa inductive gabatar da kayan: daga musamman zuwa na gaba ɗaya;
- babban motsin rai na gabatarwa ya fi dacewa: bayyanar da motsin rai, haske na magana da zane mai kayatarwa;
- iyakar amfani da gani da kuma roko ga misalan yau da kullum, lokuta daga rayuwar yau da kullum, matsalolin iyali;
- magance batu guda ɗaya kawai.
Masu sauraron maza sun bambanta. Yana da kyau a sanar da shi akan duk batutuwa, yana da sabbin bayanai da aka samo daga jaridu da fitowar labarai, a cikin irin wannan masu sauraron da suka mamaye abubuwan da suka shafi aiki da siyasa. Masu sauraro ba su da haƙuri na dogon layi, ba sa son tauna kayan daki-daki.
Abubuwan bukatu don yin magana a cikin masu sauraron maza:
- ƙaddamar da ƙaddamar da kayan yana da kyau a fahimta, labari mai dacewa daga na gaba ɗaya zuwa na musamman;
- motsin rai ya kamata ya zama matsakaici, za ku iya amfani da mafi ƙarancin gabatarwa;
- babu buƙatar zana madaidaicin ƙarshe ga masu sauraro;
- a cikin jawabi, ana iya la'akari da tambayoyi 2-3, suna ba da hujjar wajibcin abubuwan da aka gabatar;
- motsin zuciyarmu suna maraba, amma kawai a ƙarƙashin yanayin ginin ma'ana na aikin gaba ɗaya.
A takaice dai, namiji hankali ne, mace ji ne. Wataƙila, ya zama dole a fayyace bisa ga NI Kozlov: “Mace, idan ta rayu kamar mace, tana rayuwa tare da ji. Namiji idan mutum ne, hankali ne yake jagoranta. Muna tuna cewa akwai mata masu jinsi na maza da maza masu jinsin mata: sannan za mu hadu da waɗancan keɓantacce lokacin da mata suka fi son gabatar da hankali. Koyaya, ƙa'idar gabaɗaya ta kasance mai aiki: