Maza suna mayar da martani a hanyarsu ga yaro mara lafiya. Wani lokaci wannan yana da tasiri sosai.
Sauke bidiyo
Yara suna koyon rashin lafiya lokacin da ya dace da su. Kowa ya san da kyau abin da ke faruwa ga lafiyar ɗalibi yayin lokacin kulawa.
Uwaye masu butulci: "Oh, ba ku da lafiya." Yaro: "Oh, na yi rashin lafiya sosai." Iyaye masu hankali: “Da gaske kuna rashin lafiya? Kun yi tunani da kyau? Yanzu ba za ku iya tashi daga gado ba - yana da tsanani sosai. TV, kwamfuta - categorically contraindicated. Kuna buƙatar kawai ku yi gargaɗi kowane rabin sa'a. A gefe guda kuma, tsallake makaranta ba a so, don haka idan kun tashi, to ku karanta littafin kawai. Sa'an nan kuma a cikin gado ko ku yi tururuwa. Kuna tsammanin yaran za su kasance cikin koshin lafiya? Amma tuni wasa ne. Duba →
Yara ba koyaushe suke son yin rashin lafiya ba, wani lokacin ya ishe su rashin kula da lafiya ko samun lafiya. Alal misali, yaro da ake ganin ba shi da lafiya zai iya zama cikin guntun wando ya karanta littafi, ba tare da kula da taga rabin buɗaɗɗen ba da gaskiyar cewa ya riga ya yi sanyi da shuɗi: “To, na karanta kawai!” Me yasa kuke kula da lafiyar ku yayin da rashin lafiya ya yi sanyi sosai?
Halin rashin lafiya
Source: Taro tare da Milton G. Erickson, MD
Kwatsam sai aka sallami ’yar’uwar bayan tiyatar, kuma mahaifin ya dawo daga asibiti bayan da ya yi fama da cutar sankarau. Suna zaune da maraice, suna magana da kyau, kuma ba zato ba tsammani kowa ya lura cewa ɗayan yana da ciwon tachycardia. ’Yar’uwar ta ce: “Baba, kana da tachycardia kamar ni. Idan muka yanke shawarar yin kwalliya zuwa makabarta, tabbas zan riske ku: Ni ƙarami ne, don haka ina da ƙarin dama. "A'a, baby," uban ya amsa, "Ina da shekaru da kuma kwarewa a wajena, don haka zan ci nasara a tseren." Dariya suka yi su duka biyun. Har yanzu kanwata tana raye, kuma mahaifina ya rasu yana da shekara casa’in da bakwai da rabi.
Membobin dangin Erickson galibi suna ganin rashin lafiya da gazawa a matsayin baƙar fata na rayuwa. Amma babu wani abu mafi kyau fiye da baƙar fata, kowane soja zai gaya muku, bayan ya ɗaga duk kayan aikin gaggawa. (Erickson yayi dariya.)
Maza suna mayar da martani a hanyarsu ga yaro mara lafiya. Wani lokaci wannan yana da tasiri sosai. Fim din "Major Payne"