Yarinyar wadda likitoci suka yi mata alkawari tana da shekara 13 cewa ba za ta taba haihuwa ba, ta yi nasarar zama uwar tagwaye. Gaskiya ne, baƙon halitta ne a gare ta.
Menopause - wannan kalma tana da alaƙa da shekarun "wani wuri sama da 50". Wurin ajiyar ovaries na ovaries yana ƙarewa, aikin haihuwa ya ɓace, kuma sabon zamani ya fara a rayuwar mace. Ga Amanda Hill, wannan zamanin ya fara ne tun tana ɗan shekara 11 kacal.
Amanda tare da mijinta Tom.
“Hailana na farko ya fara ne sa’ad da nake ɗan shekara 10. Kuma sa’ad da nake ɗan shekara 11, ya daina gaba ɗaya. Sa’ad da nake ɗan shekara 13, an gano cewa ina da tsufar kwai da wuri da kuma gazawar kwai kuma aka gaya mini cewa ba zan taɓa haihuwa ba,” in ji Amanda.
Yana da alama yana da shekaru 13 kuma babu wani abu don yin tururi game da - wanene a wannan shekarun yayi tunani game da yara? Amma tun lokacin yaro, Amanda ya yi mafarkin babban iyali. Saboda haka, na fada cikin matsanancin damuwa, wanda ba zan iya fita ba har tsawon shekaru uku.
“A cikin shekaru da yawa, na fara gane cewa ba wai yin ciki ba ne kaɗai hanyar zama uwa ba. Na sami bege," yarinyar ta ci gaba.
Amanda yanke shawarar akan IVF. Mijinta ya goyi bayanta sosai a kan haka, shima yana son tara ’ya’ya daya da matarsa. Don dalilai masu ma'ana, yarinyar ba ta da ƙwai nata, don haka ya zama dole a sami mai bayarwa. Sun sami zaɓin da ya dace daga kasidar masu ba da gudummawar da ba a san su ba: “Ina duba bayanin, ina so in sami wanda ya kama ni, aƙalla a cikin kalmomi. Na sami wata yarinya tsayina da idanu iri daya da nawa. "
A cikin duka, Amanda da mijinta sun kashe kimanin 1,5 miliyan rubles a kan IVF - kusan 15 dubu fam Sterling. Hormone far, wucin gadi insemination, implantation - duk abin da ya tafi daidai. A lokacin da ya dace, ma'auratan sun haifi ɗa. Sunan yaron Orin.
“Na ji tsoron kada na yi wata alaka da shi. Bayan haka, a jinsin mu baƙo ne ga junanmu. Amma duk shakka sun ɓace sa’ad da na ga fasalin Tom, mijina a fuskar Orin,” in ji yarinyar. A cewarta, har ma ta kwatanta hotunan yara na Tom tare da Orin kuma ta sami ƙari da yawa. "Iya ce kawai!" – yarinyar tayi murmushi.
Shekaru biyu bayan haihuwar Orina, Amanda ta yanke shawarar zagaye na biyu na IVF, musamman tunda akwai sauran amfrayo daga ƙarshe. Ta ce: “Ina son Orin ya sami ƙane ko ’yar’uwa don kada ya kaɗaita. Kuma duk abin ya sake faruwa: an haifi ɗan'uwan tagwaye na Orin, Tylen.
"Don haka abin mamaki, tagwaye ne, amma Tylen ya shafe shekaru biyu a cikin injin daskarewa. Amma yanzu muna tare kuma muna farin ciki sosai, - Amanda ta kara da cewa. “Orin ta yi ƙanana sosai don sanin cewa ita da Tylen tagwaye ne. Amma yana son ƙanensa kawai. "