Ko mutum zai fahimci matsalolinsa a matsayin aiki ko matsala, ko masanin ilimin halayyar dan adam yana aiki tare da abokinanci, mafi daidai, yadda ya aikata yadda ya kamata shi ne zuwa saitin psychotherapeutic.
Halin dabi'a na psychotherapeutic yana gani a cikin mutum wanda yake buƙatar a yi masa magani, ba a koya masa ba, a kiyaye shi, ba mai rauni ba, yana buƙatar taimako da kariya, wanda ke buƙatar kawar da matsaloli. Masanin ilimin halayyar dan adam yana neman matsalolin ciki da sauran iyakokin da ke tsoma baki tare da mutum: "Idan mutum ya zo, to wani abu yana hana shi motsawa zuwa ga burinsa. Yana buƙatar taimako don magance matsalolinsa."
Akasin haka, masanin ilimin halayyar dan adam wanda ya himmatu ga ka'idodin ilimin halin kirki yana gani a cikin mutum wanda zai iya koyo da haɓakawa, wanda zai iya saita ayyuka don kansa kuma ya sami nasarar magance su. Masanin ilimin halayyar dan adam-mai horo yana gani a cikin waɗanda suka zo wurinsa - mutane masu lafiya tare da ayyuka masu mahimmanci. A cikin aiki tare da abokin ciniki, masanin ilimin halayyar dan adam yana kallon ikonsa, ya ƙayyade tare da shi manufofinsa da shirin aiwatar da su. Yana bayyana ayyukan abokin ciniki. "Idan mutum ya zo, to yana so ya ci gaba!"
“Kuna da komai don ci gaba. Saita maƙasudai na shekara mai zuwa, tunani akan tsarin aiki - kuma ci gaba! - in ji masanin ilimin halayyar dan adam-mai horarwa.
“Kuna da komai don ci gaba. Bari mu ga abin da ke hana ku ɗaukar matakai gaba? shine tsari na mai ilimin halin dan Adam↑.
Idan mai ilimin likitanci ya shirya don ganin mara lafiya a cikin kowane mutum mai lafiya kuma yana da kyautar shawara, mutanen da ke da matsala za su bayyana a kusa da shi. Masanin ilimin halin dan Adam na iya juya marassa lafiya duka biyu zuwa masu lafiya, kuma masu lafiya zuwa marasa lafiya.
Idan mutum ya fara gane (kuma ya fuskanci) wahalarsa a matsayin matsala, masanin ilimin halayyar dan adam bazai yi wasa da ilimin halin dan adam ba kuma ya sake mayar da abokin ciniki zuwa fahimta mai kyau da aiki: "Honey, pimple a kan hanci ba matsala ba ne, amma tambaya a gare ku shine: kuna shirin juya kan ku kuma ku koyi kada ku damu, ku tunkari al'amura cikin nutsuwa? ↑ Akasin haka, mai ilimin hanyoyin kwantar da hankali zai iya haifar da matsala ga abokin ciniki inda ba shi da asali a can: "Waɗanne matsaloli kuke kare kanku daga murmushi?" ↑
Kuna da abokin aikin ku kuna yin ilimin halin ɗan adam? Idan abokin ciniki ya zo maka da wani aiki, kuma ka rikitar da shi da matsala kuma ya ruɗe a gabansa, ka fara aikin psychotherapeutic. Idan abokin ciniki ya zo maka da matsala, sai ka saurare shi na tsawon minti takwas, kuma a cikin minti biyu ka canza shi zuwa matsayin Mawallafi, ka fara neman mafita ga matsalarsa tare da shi, sai ka kasance. tsunduma a psychotherapy kawai na farko minti goma ↑.